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Post by textbookcase on Aug 1, 2014 21:34:16 GMT -5
I think it's kinda weird when people notice when others have defriended them. I seriously don't think I'd notice unless it was, like, one of my irl bffs.
FTR I have never defriended anyone but I feel like if I did the ex friend would be glad that they no longer had to see 800 dog and baby pictures for someone they barely know.
People seem to have a really loose definition of the word "friend". If I haven't gotten drunk with you, you aren't really a friend and I am not going to care if you dump me on social media.
I'm lol that people think there should be a reason for people to defriend them on social media.
"...because I wanted to." should be enough in this arena.
And then you shut the fuck up about it and act like it never happened. Maybe I have too much pride? I will never show that I care!! lol
I'm not gonna lie. When I first read this thread I thought the same thing. And then I realized that I hadn't seen pics from you in awhile. And I wondered if you defriended me.
I checked.
But if you had I would have never let you know that I know.
People seem to have a really loose definition of the word "friend". If I haven't gotten drunk with you, you aren't really a friend and I am not going to care if you dump me on social media.
I'm not gonna lie. When I first read this thread I thought the same thing. And then I realized that I hadn't seen pics from you in awhile. And I wondered if you defriended me.
I checked.
But if you had I would have never let you know that I know.
lol!!! Well, I'd never! And I'd give you more than a CALLOUT SORRYNOTSORRY!! on the message board. (lips)
Sometime ago I deleted otter from my FB and she made a call out post. I felt so guilty and PMed her and apologised and she says ,oh, I wasn't talking about you at all. I didn't notice you'd de-friended me. OMG, it was so awkward!!
I think it's kinda weird when people notice when others have defriended them. I seriously don't think I'd notice unless it was, like, one of my irl bffs.
well to be fair about MP she messaged every.single.person and told them she was deleting them and why. one of them she deleted like 6 weeks after the incident and messaged her then to tell her why. otherwise I dont think people were watching their friend count go down or anything.
Yeah logic is pretty dang useful. Especially when you overreact and defriend a bunch of people for reasons you create in your own head.
I'm lol that people think there should be a reason for people to defriend them on social media.
"...because I wanted to." should be enough in this arena.
If you care that much about a person you never met de friending you and post it on a message board, I think you must be feeling insecure. If you come in and let the person know they are wrong through gifs or posts--same. I am doing it too, we all have to get perspective.
Quick, everyone hide in the Thursday Randoms thread until they go away!
Haha! This reminds me of my parents' first dog. Whenever people were fighting or she thought she was in trouble, she'd hide her head under the bed with her butt sticking out. Apparently she thought if she couldn't see us, we couldn't see her. Lol.