I feel sick (abuse related)

ilovelamp
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I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:51:18 GMT -5 via mobile

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Post by ilovelamp on Aug 19, 2014 17:51:18 GMT -5

I don't want to go into detail because this isn't a safe place. There is a possibly that my toddler nephew is being molested by a family member.

I can't say anything to friends yet because it's just being investigated by police, but I needed to get this out somewhere.

Omg this is so unbelievable and awful.

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Booze Raccoon Senior Member Posts: 6,155 Likes: 4,366	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:52:01 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Booze Raccoon on Aug 19, 2014 17:52:01 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to him and your family.
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iamali Senior Member Posts: 9,173 Likes: 7,465	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:52:33 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by iamali on Aug 19, 2014 17:52:33 GMT -5 Horrific. I hope he's ok.
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usuallylurking Full Member Posts: 4,065 Likes: 4,396	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:52:59 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by usuallylurking on Aug 19, 2014 17:52:59 GMT -5 Wow. I'm so sorry. I hope he's ok.
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berbles Senior Member Posts: 9,999 Likes: 14,576	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:54:04 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by berbles on Aug 19, 2014 17:54:04 GMT -5 Oh man, I'm so sorry. T&Ps for your family.
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lime Senior Member Posts: 8,197 Likes: 4,891	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:54:05 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lime on Aug 19, 2014 17:54:05 GMT -5 I'm so sorry. I'm glad there is an investigation going on.
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amberlyrose Elder Posts: 10,472 Likes: 7,649	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:56:18 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by amberlyrose on Aug 19, 2014 17:56:18 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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BaliHai Elder Posts: 13,947 Likes: 22,942	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:57:20 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by BaliHai on Aug 19, 2014 17:57:20 GMT -5 How horrific. I'm so sorry.
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noodleskooze Elder Posts: 11,094 Likes: 11,462	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 17:58:16 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by noodleskooze on Aug 19, 2014 17:58:16 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:00:23 GMT -5 WOT?* likes this

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Post by compassrose on Aug 19, 2014 18:00:23 GMT -5

That's heartbreaking. I really hope it's not true, but if it is, I hope Nephew and his (non-molesting) parents get all the support they need.

And ignore this if it's not helpful to you right now, but, while I can only speak for myself (although I assume a number of us have gone through it), I just want to say that it's possible to be molested as a child and grow up to be a perfectly healthy adult who mostly remembers the good people who believed and supported you. (This in no way excuses the asshole douchecanoe scum that laid a finger on that baby, ftr.)

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kaybee85 Senior Member Posts: 6,846 Likes: 6,595	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:01:56 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by kaybee85 on Aug 19, 2014 18:01:56 GMT -5
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jodinia Full Member Posts: 1,603 Likes: 905	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:02:27 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jodinia on Aug 19, 2014 18:02:27 GMT -5 I am so sorry, hun. (Hugs) Please let us know if we can do anything.
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lissaholly Full Member Posts: 3,047 Likes: 3,515	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:21:10 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by lissaholly on Aug 19, 2014 18:21:10 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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notoriousmeg Full Member Posts: 2,692 Likes: 1,201	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:22:45 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by notoriousmeg on Aug 19, 2014 18:22:45 GMT -5 How horrifying. I'm so sorry.
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isabel Elder Posts: 18,189 Likes: 10,232	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:28:26 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by isabel on Aug 19, 2014 18:28:26 GMT -5 That's disgusting. I am so sorry.
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jreeds Senior Member Posts: 7,960 Likes: 7,785	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:29:47 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by jreeds on Aug 19, 2014 18:29:47 GMT -5 I'm sorry, prayers for your family
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redheadk Elder Posts: 17,191 Likes: 15,254	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:30:22 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by redheadk on Aug 19, 2014 18:30:22 GMT -5 I'm so sorry.
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gogadgetgo Full Member Posts: 4,403 Likes: 1,676	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:37:44 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by gogadgetgo on Aug 19, 2014 18:37:44 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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cinnamoncox Senior Member Posts: 6,067 Likes: 1,811	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:39:26 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by cinnamoncox on Aug 19, 2014 18:39:26 GMT -5 Oh no that's horrible. I'm sorry this is happening, thoughts for your nephew and family .
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olegregg Full Member Posts: 1,790 Likes: 719	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 18:45:44 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by olegregg on Aug 19, 2014 18:45:44 GMT -5 I'm sorry. We're here for you ((hugs))
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mellymel Senior Member Posts: 7,563 Likes: 4,434	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 19:15:14 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mellymel on Aug 19, 2014 19:15:14 GMT -5 OMG i'm so sorry; I hope he is ok.
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bittybomb Senior Member Posts: 5,206 Likes: 2,955	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 19:29:22 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bittybomb on Aug 19, 2014 19:29:22 GMT -5 I'm so sorry for that little boy and his parents (and you too).
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karmasabiotch Elder Posts: 14,814 Likes: 8,629	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 20:08:23 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by karmasabiotch on Aug 19, 2014 20:08:23 GMT -5 Im so sorry. Hopefully it gets figured out quickly and the child gets the help he needs and deserves.
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WOT?* Elder Posts: 21,300 Likes: 21,291	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 20:54:50 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by WOT?* on Aug 19, 2014 20:54:50 GMT -5 That poor baby. I hope it's not true. In the event that it is, I hope he is safe with his parents (or parent if the other is guilty of the crime) and he has a safe and secure and happy childhood to negate this.
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sewpinkgal Full Member Posts: 3,975 Likes: 2,035	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 20:57:41 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by sewpinkgal on Aug 19, 2014 20:57:41 GMT -5 I'm so sorry
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I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 19, 2014 23:23:53 GMT -5

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Post by ilovelamp on Aug 19, 2014 23:23:53 GMT -5

Thank you so much everyone for the kind words. It has been so hard not being able to talk about this the past few days. It felt good to get it out.

Police were called and they will send detectives to begin the process within 2 days. Nephew is safe. The alleged family member is out of town for school.

I live out of state so there isn't much I can do right now except wait for updates.

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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	I feel sick (abuse related) Aug 20, 2014 0:37:56 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Aug 20, 2014 0:37:56 GMT -5 So many hugs to you and your family. I hope for everyone's sake that it's not true but it it is I'm glad that the family is taking action.
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