We are not sure if we'll stop at two or have a third. It's going to be a really, really hard decision, and if we do it probably won't be at least until C is in kindergarten.
(That's the corny slogan DH thought up when I was telling him about how some people are "one and done" or "two and through." I wonder what 4 + would be? "Four? Sure, what's one more?" Lol)
Post by Dumbledork on Aug 20, 2014 11:09:34 GMT -5
We're OAD, but we each have our reasons for it. For me, it's due to mainly financial, time, and future plans, but for DH it's more for personal reasons. If we had more money, like a LOT more money, I would fight to have a couple more kids.
Since there's almost no way we'll suddenly have so much extra money, I'm fine being OAD.
DD just turned 5. DH had a vasectomy earlier this year. We're definitely OAD.
(That's the corny slogan DH thought up when I was telling him about how some people are "one and done" or "two and through." I wonder what 4 + would be? "Four? Sure, what's one more?" Lol)
LOL. I never heard of "two and through". Ha! Oh well, I'll leave my title on the other thread.
Hopefully two! I always said up to four but damn one is a lot of work sometimes plus private school is expensive. If we end up with twins next FET I'd be happy of course but I would also have DH get a V because nope nope nope.
I am hoping for one more, so five. I always wanted 6+ but I have had 4 c/s already so the next baby will be our last. I would love to foster to adopt someday but I haven't discussed it with DH.
Well definitely two, lol - but I said "three" because like I said in the other thread, I think we are both leaning in that direction. No final decisions have been made yet.
When we are done, H is definitely getting the big snip. Or tie off. Or burn. Or whatever. ha.
I voted 3 simply because before #2 came, we planned on 3. We're currently very much on the fence due to exhaustion, but realistically neither of us feels done and we can make the budget work for 3. We are not ready now, but I can imagine a time when we will be ready.
We are done with 3, H is having a vasectomy next week. Growing up I always wanted 4 or 5. Reality hit when I grew up and we were wavering between 2 and 3. Pregnancy #2 was twins so that settled the debate very easily If we had a lot more money we would likely have a 4th. But we know that isn't going to happen so we are done.
Post by MadamePresident on Aug 20, 2014 11:50:44 GMT -5
I want 3, but my husband only wants 2. I'm happy with our 2, so I really don't think we will have any more. We could afford a 3rd, but I stay at home, so we wouldn't have daycare as an added expense.