I am so angry after reading that. I read it again to DH and got even more angry. That man is an awful piece of shit. I am so sorry that your precious gifts have been discriminated against and they don't even know it. That is completely unacceptable.
I'm going to talk to an officer about it. I don't know if it's something they do and how we would go about it. It might be smart to have something on record though.
Post his fucking name and address here so we can all send hate mail.
Post by sewpinkgal on Aug 20, 2014 23:01:15 GMT -5
A bunch of unintelligible nonsense ran through my head after reading that because I couldn't seem to form actual words or thoughts.
I rationally know that people like that still exist in the world. I do. But no matter how often I hear stories like this, I cannot wrap my brain around it. Just cannot do it.
Jeremys, I know you're angry, but fuck, I also know you are so so hurt. I'm just so sorry that this still happens. That it happened to your son. Your sweet little boy. Fuck dude.
I'm so sorry. Whatever revenge you decide to do, I fully support it. I'm assuming you're a better person than I am, because it would be FUCKING ON if this happened within earshot of me. Fuck him. It makes me sick that people like him actually exist.
I teared up over this Jermys. That's such a fucking horrible thing to say. That is just so warped and evil. I don't really know what would change such a person.
Jeremys, I know you're angry, but fuck, I also know you are so so hurt. I'm just so sorry that this still happens. That it happened to your son. Your sweet little boy. Fuck dude.
Exactly this. Not even just my baby, but other women's babies all over this fucking country. I'm enraged and I won't ever stop fighting this bullshit, but god, I'm so sad and I just want to keep my baby small forever so people will always love him and never fear him.
I'm going to talk to an officer about it. I don't know if it's something they do and how we would go about it. It might be smart to have something on record though.
Post his fucking name and address here so we can all send hate mail.
I'm kidding. Sort of.
Wait no - papie, where are you? Put all those nits into a ball of cloth and mail that to him. He needs a lice infestation.
Jeremys, I know you're angry, but fuck, I also know you are so so hurt. I'm just so sorry that this still happens. That it happened to your son. Your sweet little boy. Fuck dude.
Exactly this. Not even just my baby, but other women's babies all over this fucking country. I'm enraged and I won't ever stop fighting this bullshit, but god, I'm so sad and I just want to keep my baby small forever so people will always love him and never fear him.
Well shit. I was holding it together until this. I know you will keep fighting it as will others, but yeah, it's just so fucking sad. Big hugs to you and the whole family tonight.
What a horrid thing to say to someone. I am so sorry, Jermys.
Friends of mine moved after their adopted older child was repeatedly yelled at in the neighborhood that "Those aren't your real parents!" and junk like that because the parents and the child were different races.
Who ARE these sick people, and why can't they just shut up?
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Post by bohemianmango on Aug 20, 2014 23:16:48 GMT -5
I'm sorry your beautiful babies had to hear that shitty garbage. I'm sorry you have to deal with that so close to home and I hope his house sells quickly. Whether your kids understood what was going on or not I'm glad they heard your neighbor stick up for them and act as your family's ally.
We're doing concrete work in our yard. Let me know if you need a place to hide a body shit.
God Jermys, I do t even know what to say. I am so angry and upset and disturbed and all the emotions on your and Freddie's behalf. I am so so sorry this happened, and that you even have to deal with this kind of fucking racist assholeish behavior.
Post by junieolive on Aug 20, 2014 23:43:08 GMT -5
Listen I am a dirty lurker but I just moved out of a rural house that I am 100% positive has no residents with an acre of land ready for bodies to be buried in. Just saying. I also clean up the yard after 3 large dogs so I have a lot of flaming poop to offer. Seriously I am horrified and disgusted at this asshole. I am so sad, and angry that your poor baby is going to have to deal with this for his whole life. "Humans" make me so angry.
In some ways, I wonder if it would be easier if I'd have experienced this shit all of my life or if it just never gets easier and hurts just as much each time it happens.
I don't know the answer to this, but I do think it might be easier to prepare or children for the discrimination they will face if we experienced it ourselves. I'm struggling with this right now with M; how do I help him understand that some people may fear/dislike/hate him for no reason other than the way he looks, without making him hate in return or assume that every negative reaction he gets is because of his race? How do I explain that he may want to dress in a way that is less appealing to him, because if he dresses like he just stepped or if a reggaeton video, be might be branded a thug?
I'm so sorry you are already facing this while he's really just a baby. How horrifying. I pray this isn't a glimpse of what he'll have to face for long.
Post by shostakovich on Aug 21, 2014 1:35:31 GMT -5
He's going to find it very difficult to sell his house after it "accidentally" burns to the ground. Even the best realtor would have a hard time making "smoking pile of cinders" sound good in a listing.