Satur - why am I awake right now - day randoms

[abcdefu]

So I've decided this stupid dating shit is for the birds!! I hate little games and I believe honesty is the best policy! If you don't want to get serious, tell me! If you just want to bang, tell me! I'm tired of the "oh sorry! I just got your text!" Nonsense! Which he would have gotten before 1 am. If you don't want to date me publicly, that's fine! The sex great but not worth getting hurt over!

[peppermint]

I feel ya, abcdefu. Dating can be tough.

Just took my dog for her morning walk and holy balls is it humid already. Now I'm getting ready to run some errands and get my hurr did.

[abcdefu]

Aug 23, 2014 6:45:58 GMT -5 peppermint said:

I feel ya, abcdefu. Dating can be tough.

Just took my dog for her morning walk and holy balls is it humid already. Now I'm getting ready to run some errands and get my hurr did.

Do you have poodle hair??? I get that when I go in the humidity! I look like Monica on the episode of friends where they go to the Bahamas and she has to get her hair braided! :: off to find a pic::

[peppermint]

Aug 23, 2014 6:50:38 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Aug 23, 2014 6:45:58 GMT -5 peppermint said:

I feel ya, abcdefu. Dating can be tough.

Just took my dog for her morning walk and holy balls is it humid already. Now I'm getting ready to run some errands and get my hurr did.

Do you have poodle hair??? I get that when I go in the humidity! I look like Monica on the episode of friends where they go to the Bahamas and she has to get her hair braided! :: off to find a pic::

Haha sort of! My hair is naturally wavy so in the humidity it turns into a sweaty, wavy mess. AND I left my straightener at my parent's house last weekend and don't have time to drive 3 hours round trip to go get it! FML.

[wampuscat]

The humidity is ridiculous right now. I'm awake because "hi, kid!" Its kinda sad when you first wake up and you're already looking forward to taking a nap later

[jellymankelly]

Aug 23, 2014 6:50:38 GMT -5 abcdefu said:

Aug 23, 2014 6:45:58 GMT -5 peppermint said:

I feel ya, abcdefu. Dating can be tough.

Just took my dog for her morning walk and holy balls is it humid already. Now I'm getting ready to run some errands and get my hurr did.

Do you have poodle hair??? I get that when I go in the humidity! I look like Monica on the episode of friends where they go to the Bahamas and she has to get her hair braided! :: off to find a pic::

I have this as well! We went to FL for spring break this year and I kept threatening to put my hair in cornrows!

[sweetchix]

I'm running a 10k in an hour and I'm not feeling all that great (tummy issues). I'm hoping it will go away so I can actually get a decent time today. And because there are no bathrooms on this route

[bullygirl979]

sweetchix, good luck!!!!

I'm going to a cycling clinic today and tomorrow which I'm all excited about! And because I'm being a total AW, P's birthday is tomorrow and he asked me to cook him dinner because he thinks my cooking is better than any restaurant.

[Eureka1984]

Last night the guy I had been seeing for a few months finally told me he didn't feel a big connection to me and didn't want to see me anymore. I am bummed but I honestly had no tears, I realized he was a lesson to teach me some pitfalls I did early on in the relationship.

Today is a new day and I am hanging out with my sister for her birthday.

[cuddlyevil]

I am not hungover. But I need to get up, shower, and go do laundry.

Last night, I learned that 41 is better that 38. So according to my coworker, I haven't peaked yet

[mcc]

Good luck sweetchix
Sorry Eureka1984

I'm walking 13 miles today. 3 to my friends house then 10 together. I'm so excited to talk to her. There has been so much happening since I've seen her and some decisions I have coming up that I'd love to bounce off her. She's a social worker so it's like free therapy

[jojoandleo]

I went to a friend's birthday party last night. My friend's GF was in a sorority and her sorority sisters always come. It takes me a few times meeting them to remember them because 75% of them annoy the shit out of me. (A few of them have said things to my friends like "OMG! I have always wanted a cute gay couple to hang around with!" like they are a fucking collector's item.) Once I decide they don't suck, I remember them. Anyway, a couple people last night were all "I remember Jojo! Hi Jojo!" And I was all, "erm, who the fuck are you?" (but only in my head.) I happened to tell my friend this and he said, "Don't take this the wrong way, but I think all the drinking you did in your twenties damaged your memory." Ummm, how do I take that in a good way? He basically called me brain damaged. Also, I have an alcoholic father who has issues remembering his past due to his drinking. Wrong thing to say to me. It fucked up my entire night.

The thing is, I did drink a lot for about a year in college. ONE fucking year. Now? I maybe drink every few weeks, and normally like A glass of wine. Now, big deal parties? Yeah, my friends and I drink. I haven't gotten puking drunk, black out drunk, or angry drunk. Drunk, probably, but I know when to cut myself off. But now he has me feeling like a damn alcoholic. He is supposed to be a good friend. I don't think he meant to be mean, he really just has no filter, but I am hurt.

[Eureka1984]

Thanks mcc! You know without you ladies, (mp and doriswe)I probably would have taken this breakup pretty hard but when we started discussing it, I noticed where I made my mistakes and stepped back and really looked at it I realized I need to try and stop forcing relationships and let it go.

[Eureka1984]

Aug 23, 2014 9:19:04 GMT -5 @soudesafinado said:

Aug 23, 2014 8:00:45 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

Last night the guy I had been seeing for a few months finally told me he didn't feel a big connection to me and didn't want to see me anymore. I am bummed but I honestly had no tears, I realized he was a lesson to teach me some pitfalls I did early on in the relationship.

Today is a new day and I am hanging out with my sister for her birthday.

what were the lessons and pitfalls?

Try to force a relationship
Declaring gf/bf after a month
Having sex early

I know that doesn't seem bad but for me it was too fast too soon.

[achase123]

I'm trying cross fit this morning.

P woke up a little after 5 because he wanted the hall light on. Then he was officially awake at 6:30. 6:30 on a Saturday??? When I wake him up at 6:30 on a school day he acts like I'm torturing him and he begs to sleep longer. But when he can actually sleep in on Saturday he's wide awake before me. ::sigh::

Were going to a slip and slide BBQ later today. Maybe that will wear him out. Maybe.


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[doriswe]

Aug 23, 2014 9:33:34 GMT -5 achase123 said:

I'm trying cross fit this morning.

P woke up a little after 5 because he wanted the hall light on. Then he was officially awake at 6:30. 6:30 on a Saturday??? When I wake him up at 6:30 on a school day he acts like I'm torturing him and he begs to sleep longer. But when he can actually sleep in on Saturday he's wide awake before me. ::sigh::

Were going to a slip and slide BBQ later today. Maybe that will wear him out. Maybe.


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From what I can tell, this early morning nonsense on the weekends/cranky bear during the school year doesn't get better until their teenagers! DS still does this but DD has finally learned to sleep in! It only took 14 years

[jigsy]

I am so excited for the dodgers game! Heading there with mr. Jiggles, mp, and stinky. It's going to be a pug party!

[doriswe]

Aug 23, 2014 9:27:37 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

Aug 23, 2014 9:19:04 GMT -5 @soudesafinado said:

what were the lessons and pitfalls?

Try to force a relationship
Declaring gf/bf after a month
Having sex early

I know that doesn't seem bad but for me it was too fast too soon.

Was this the guy who you posted about being weird a few weeks ago?

[cuddlyevil]

Am doing laundry and eating dunkin.

I have a headache starting. Hope the coffee heads it off.

[Eureka1984]

Aug 23, 2014 10:15:45 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Aug 23, 2014 9:27:37 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

Try to force a relationship
Declaring gf/bf after a month
Having sex early

I know that doesn't seem bad but for me it was too fast too soon.

Was this the guy who you posted about being weird a few weeks ago?

Yes. I know, I should have learned my lesson but at least now I understand and am ready to move on.

[doriswe]

Aug 23, 2014 10:45:34 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

Aug 23, 2014 10:15:45 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Was this the guy who you posted about being weird a few weeks ago?

Yes. I know, I should have learned my lesson but at least now I understand and am ready to move on.

I'm totally curious, swear no snark, but how'd you go from him being a dick to you guys bf/gf?

[Eureka1984]

Aug 23, 2014 10:59:59 GMT -5 doriswe said:

Aug 23, 2014 10:45:34 GMT -5 Eureka1984 said:

Yes. I know, I should have learned my lesson but at least now I understand and am ready to move on.

I'm totally curious, swear no snark, but how'd you go from him being a dick to you guys bf/gf?

No it's not snarky... And I totally get it. I am still learning how to date since I didn't date in my early 20s due to being married. I am going to be 30 this year and I guess I have a lot to learn. We started talking about bf/gf before the comedy show. He said he was into me and looking for a relationship. I'm sure that's just as vague and I need to get better at reading the signs of people.

[Deleted]

I'm taking the day off from the outside world except to go get a prescription and some cleaning supplies. I'm going to clean my whole house, do a bit of work and then veg out with movies on Netflix and DVR catch up. I'm still in bed and it's glorious!

[moonlight]

There is a park behind me that is obviously having some sort of event, and there is a announcer on a loudspeaker doing the whole baseball stadium echo thing and I'm about to stab myself in the ears.

[sweetchix]

Thanks bullygirl979 and mcc! I did better than I thought I'd do. My goal was to finish under 1:15 and I finished just under 1:08. Two years ago I did the same race and finished at 1:19:43. I'm so happy with my time!

Now, I'm off to tailgate and then go to the Bills game
(With a bunch of twenty somethings ).

[WinterIsComing]

Yoga kicked my butt this morning. I feel like I need a nap to recover but I have so much to get done.

I'm having a bunch of friends over to play Cards Against Humanity tonight. I'm excited and it should be fun but it's all couples except me so I think it might a little hard

[WinterIsComing]

Aug 23, 2014 11:33:08 GMT -5 @pdx18 said:

I'm taking the day off from the outside world except to go get a prescription and some cleaning supplies. I'm going to clean my whole house, do a bit of work and then veg out with movies on Netflix and DVR catch up. I'm still in bed and it's glorious!

That sounds fabulous! I blocked my whole next Sunday off on my calendar to do that.

[1confused1]

I haven't drank alcohol all week, I had two cocktails last night, went to bed at 9:30pm and woke up with a hangover. Ugh.

I have managed to take my kid to football practice, workout and am now drinking coffee.

Pool party later today. Yay for the weekend!!

[gozf]

I'm going to a street fair where I'm helping my friend sell her tshirts for a few hours. Then I'm going to another friend's birthday karaoke party later tonight.

I am wearing a Garfield Tshirt. To both.

[moonlight]

All you marathon runners make me feel lazy. I like yoga and working out but I LOATHE running. More power to you!