Post by missmaddie on Aug 23, 2014 14:38:13 GMT -5
Any free festivals on? We have a few places we like to take the dog to hike in the woods, but not with kids, so we never make it to. Any unused movie or restaurant gift cards? Make popcorn and catch up on a season of a show on Netflix? Backyard camp fire tonight?
Post by firelight1210 on Aug 23, 2014 14:43:41 GMT -5
The only festival that is happening does sound like fun (an art and wine festival) but h is being a butt. Hence the annoyance and "no sex for you" at the moment. Maybe I'll just take the dog and go, but that would leave him with no car.
Post by firelight1210 on Aug 23, 2014 14:47:40 GMT -5
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
Nap. Oh how I miss the ability to nap whenever I want. Sometimes I'd nap twice a day. It absolutely had something to do with the paxil I was on, but still, paxil induced naps were the best.
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
Ok- you both need to write down 2 things that you would like to do Examples: -Card Games for sex bets (whoever loses goes down on the other, etc.) -A walk to _____ (possibly make it a scavenger hunt-ish, spot a dude wearing sandles w/ socks/ a chick wearing a light colored shirt that shows her bra/ etc.) YES- I live in the Midwest- you might hv to Californize -Lying on the sofa w/ a marathon of ____ (assuming this might be his suggestion?)
You draw one for today/ one for tomorrow. It doesn't even matter if you actually stick to the plan! This is just a personal GoTo when H & I find ourselves 'stuck' Motivation!!!
I also live in the South Bay Area and I'm poor, I spend a lot of time going for hikes there are so many great places to hike without driving too far. I'm also a big fan of just going to the ocean. Take a book, some snacks and relax.
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
I'd leave his ass behind and enjoy doing whatever you want.
Go for a walk, window shop, grab a coffee and people watch, read a book in the park, pack snacks and take them to the park, go to the library, watch movies, cook with whatever you have on hand...and the list goes on. No need to sit around being miserable and bored!
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
Willow Glen has a wine festival going on today. I am just walking around since I don't drink wine. Leave him at home and go out!
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
Willow Glen has a wine festival going on today. I am just walking around since I don't drink wine. Leave him at home and go out!
That's one of the things I wanted to do, but i would want the wine, and it's $35, lol
Dh and I love board games and card games and sometimes make it interesting by playing "strip" whatever we're doing. Yes, we're nerds and play strip Trivial Pursuit.
I live in the South Bay Area, and am super close to downtown San Jose. I think my frustration mostly lies with h at the moment. He's not super active and doesn't want to go for a walk or do much of anything except complain. It's a beautiful day outside too!
Ok- you both need to write down 2 things that you would like to do Examples: -Card Games for sex bets (whoever loses goes down on the other, etc.) -A walk to _____ (possibly make it a scavenger hunt-ish, spot a dude wearing sandles w/ socks/ a chick wearing a light colored shirt that shows her bra/ etc.) YES- I live in the Midwest- you might hv to Californize -Lying on the sofa w/ a marathon of ____ (assuming this might be his suggestion?)
You draw one for today/ one for tomorrow. It doesn't even matter if you actually stick to the plan! This is just a personal GoTo when H & I find ourselves 'stuck' Motivation!!!
Have you been Geocaching? www.geocaching.com/ We've done it at Quicksilver Park.
Dh and I love board games and card games and sometimes make it interesting by playing "strip" whatever we're doing. Yes, we're nerds and play strip Trivial Pursuit.
I was going to suggest strip "whatever" because that's generally what we do, though it's rather warm to put on a sweatshirt, T-shirt, tank top, pants, socks, shoes. Lol
Clean, find a house project to work on (rearrange a room, paint something, etc), do something with the dog, go on a walk or drive to take pictures and edit them at home, read, TV, video games, pick something new to try with sex, cook something different, find something free to do locally, visit the library, drive somewhere new, visit friends.
...We were broke for a really long time. My list of things to do is huge.