Post by sofamonkey on Aug 27, 2014 21:09:44 GMT -5
We go through shit like this too. With the amount of work that my DH has to do (long, shitty hours), I try to make sure he gets a golf day to unwind. THEN I ask him for time for us too. If I ask prior, he's a stressed out bitch about it.
Honestly, that sounded more helpful in my head. I guess the point is, do mention couple time, but try to get him some decompression time too. Hope that makes sense & is helpful.
Post by snipsnsnails on Aug 27, 2014 21:32:22 GMT -5
((Hugs)) I always tell DH, when we have the money to do things, we never have the time. When we have the time, we don't have the money. There's no good answer or balance that we've found. We've been on both ends and they're both equally taxing. I feel ya. I hope things ease up and you hit your stride. If I lived next door, I'd totally be the popper-inner who helps put them to bed. xoxo