Mine was probably the day we finalized LO's adoption and she legally became our daughter. Even though we had her since birth, the day when our names were placed on her birth certificate as her parents and her last name became ours, was pretty special!
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
I thought about that decision more than any other decision I've made in my life and if I stayed I don't even want to think where I'd be mentally right now.
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'd have to say the day I found out I was pregnant with DS 1. We'd had a rough bout with infertility that was really taking a toll on my mental health and our marriage, and that day marked the end of that really shitty chapter of our lives.
Important? Moving away from home when I went to college? Moving in with H when we were dating, maybe?
My wedding day was incredible and one of the best days of my life, but I don't know that I would say it was the most important. And by important, I perceive meaning as life-changing.
I suppose the day we created this thing in my ute was pretty darn important, but if I had to guess, I would say the most important/significant days are on the way.
I don't like these types of questions. How about the day I became an elder? That was pretty big.
Lol, the day I finally hit 500 posts/bronze on the old site, I was so excited. Then 2 hours later all you assholes got your pampers in a twist and moved here. Literally, that same day.
Shitheads.
So that was the day you learned we were a group of selfish shitheads? Sounds like a pretty darned important day to me. LOL
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
Crossing the finish line of my first Ironman. It was an unbelievable experience. If you would have asked me 7 years ago if I thought I was possible, I would have said HELL NO!
The day I was accepted into graduate school. I had a plan, and that was the first time I was sure it would come to fruition. I'm still a little amazed that I'm doing pretty much exactly what I'd hoped I would way back when I didn't know any better.
I want to say something sappy like "today." Because live every day to its fullest and all that. Maybe the day H and I began dating? The day I found out I was pregnant?
Post by aussiecrush on Sept 1, 2014 18:39:16 GMT -5
The day I confronted my abuser. I can't undo the experience but everyday since I looked in his face and saw he was as scared of me as I was of him, I realized he never took my power away.
It really is hard to know. There are a few pivotal times of my life that definitely changed the course of it and I wonder what would have happened if those things hadn't happened.
If I hadn't decided to dive in high school I wouldn't have gone to the college that I did and wouldn't have met my husband and I'm sure my life would be completely different. So maybe that was most important.
The day of his surgery where he went from a 1% survival to a you're going to live. (this was 12+ years ago)I'd count this as the happiest day, but in terms of important, I'd go with the day we made the decision to seek out another doctor who would give us an alternative course of action.
The day DS was born. It was like the Grinch, my heart grew three sizes that day. I even remember feeling the change, it was very bizarre. I have pictures from labor and you can even see it on my face when they lay him on my chest.
It really is hard to know. There are a few pivotal times of my life that definitely changed the course of it and I wonder what would have happened if those things hadn't happened.
If I hadn't decided to dive in high school I wouldn't have gone to the college that I did and wouldn't have met my husband and I'm sure my life would be completely different. So maybe that was most important.
Oh, yeah, this is a good one.
I was going to transfer to a college back home because I was miserable at the one I chose. I met DH after I had applied for the transfer, but before I got the acceptance letter. I decided to stay because of him. My life would be so different if I hadn't met him at that time.
I'm gonna go with the day the ex and I were bickering in the car on a random day and it hit us both that we weren't going to make it as a couple. That was pretty life changing.