Monday night randoms /MOTN

[osulori]

Something woke AJ up and had him fussing for a couple minutes. Bad dream? Whacked his head on the crib bars while rolling around? Who knows. He seems to have gone back to sleep though, which means so should I. THAT could be a while.

[bowies]

namasteak I think it boils down to quality of life and what that means for you. There's no right or wrong answer, just what you think is best for your family. Is your H someone who needs to move up in his career to feel fulfilled or would he be content to stagnate for a while? How do you prioritize career vs. family? How does he?

My H and I have discussed this scenario as well and are likely going to move closer to my family in the next few years (before DS would start grade school). My mom's eccentricities drive me nuts but it's important to us that our kids know (part of) their extended family. It helps that neither my H nor I feel particularly tied to where we live now. It'll be harder for me to find a job when we move but the prospect of exiting my current industry is a good one.

[kangaroo11]

@starry I have to get out at least once a day, even if it's just to the grocery store. But we have a nice yard, so we can play outside and also take the dog for a walk when it's cooler, which gives us outdoor options too.

pugz I mentioned your costume planning to my mom and she totally wants me to copy you. Daniel Tiger is the only hing DD will watch consistently and she loves this talking stuffed animal my mom bought her. I said I couldn't copy you without permission. So, can I? Lol

[dulcemariamar]

Sept 1, 2014 19:42:35 GMT -5 @starry said:

I have a potentially offensive question to SAHMs of just one toddler. Do you have to get out all the time, or do you really enjoy toddler play? I decided not to go out with J today because I didn't want to spend money and hadn't made plans with friends (I had her from her nap through bedtime alone). It was fine, she was is a pretty great mood and it was nice but it was pretty boring, lol.

All the time no? I dont mind staying indoors but it is more fun when we go out. I usually pack up her toys and head to the park to play. But I dont do classes with her. Having a set scheduled is too stressful. I prefer playdates or just playing with the other tots in my neighborhood.

[sh10]

My strong will kid cried for 30 minutes before I caved and fed him 15 minutes early. I guess who should just be extending our intervals by 15 minutes each night for my sanity. He's eating a lot too, I guess I need to try to get another feeding in him during the day. For those who had a easy time sleep training, was your kid more cooperative?

[Jalapeñomel]

My DS must know I'm starting a new job today, because he woke up three times last night to nurse.

Where's. mekiakoo been?

[rugbywife]

Sept 2, 2014 5:49:44 GMT -5 Jalapeñomel said:

My DS must know I'm starting a new job today, because he woke up three times last night to nurse.

Where's. mekiakoo been?

Same here. She slept like crap. I was going to wake up at 6:30 but was too exhausted.

[catsarecute]

Sept 1, 2014 21:57:58 GMT -5 @this said:

Sept 1, 2014 21:54:31 GMT -5 catsarecute said:

Sometimes I think we are doing naps/bedtime/motn wakeups all wrong and we are screwing ourselves for the future.

Isnt your baby fairly new? If this board has taught me anything, you can't screw things up the first six months. Survive now and then rip the bandaid of sleep training if you need to.

Yes, she is almost 5 months. I need to remind myself of that often. Thanks!

[pugz]

Sept 2, 2014 1:01:05 GMT -5 kangaroo11 said:

@starry I have to get out at least once a day, even if it's just to the grocery store. But we have a nice yard, so we can play outside and also take the dog for a walk when it's cooler, which gives us outdoor options too.

pugz I mentioned your costume planning to my mom and she totally wants me to copy you. Daniel Tiger is the only hing DD will watch consistently and she loves this talking stuffed animal my mom bought her. I said I couldn't copy you without permission. So, can I? Lol

lol copy away!