Post by purplecow0206 on Sept 2, 2014 18:56:44 GMT -5
Yes, we're also looking to start trying in November/December 2015. This would give us a little over 2 years between them, then we're two and through.
I got to hold my 2.5 month old niece this past weekend, and I remembered the good stuff about the squishy newborn stage - namely that they like to be held and don't wiggle all the time!
[br It's ok! I just am annoyed how I seem to get pregnant when I'm not expecting it and then when I really, really want it, I lose the baby or nothing happens. 2 surprises, 2 losses and now nothing. I know there's all the time and I'm probably being irrational.
DH wants to be OAD but I'm hoping he changes his mind because I am already AMA.
I totally understand being freaked out and I AM but I also worry about regretting not having a second. Sappy story: Lately I have been having dreams that we have a baby girl and when I wake up I'm sad.
Why can you try if you got preg next month you would have a summer baby so not in the middle of the season isn't that better?
I want the baby to be at least 5 months going into the season. I WILL NOT do the 4m wakeful during the season.
My sister was a (very much desired) oops baby. My mom wen into labor on a Friday in October . My dad was there for the birth, then coached a football game on Saturday, then was in his brothers wedding on Saturday night. I don't know how my mom survived a newborn and a 1st grader (me) with my dad working 16 your days. My H wanted a fall wedding and I was like, "Haaaa- nope!"
We would like to start trying at the end of this year because of IF issues but my OB really recommends a year. That would mean spring and I am ok with that.
Lololol - we've tabled the discussing until G is closer to one. The newborn stage has been hard for H and he's wishy washy on #2. I'm not even sure I want #2 so we're focusing on enjoying this guy right now.