I just called to schedule my follow up appointment after delivery. Dr said to schedule it for 4-5 weeks postpartum, I explain this to the receptionist and she's all "Yeah, we don't have a single opening until October 22nd." Um, that's 8 weeks after delivery. I'm not waiting 8 weeks for someone to make sure I'm healing from my year correctly and clear me for stuff. And really? EVERYTHING is booked for 2 whole months? C'mon.
I plan on calling back and seeing if I can talk to someone else. There's a reason my dr said 4-5 weeks and not 8. Psh.
That's ridiculous, don't they always keep appointments open for new patients, emergency stuff, etc? I'm sure they can fit you in somehow. That would be a whole month late. Weird.
Mine - My doctor told me today to make arrangements for a few weeks of hospitalization toward the end of September. But he wouldn't say exactly WHY. Obviously I'll do whatever they say, but if I'm away from my boys for weeks just so they can hook me up to monitors and I can watch HGTV all day, I'm gonna be a little pissed.
The Pre-K bus dropped off my 4 year old at the wrong stop this morning. A mile from home. Despite her bus stop taped in florescent duct tape to her bag and 2 phone calls from me this morning to make sure they get shit right.
Post by liverandonions on Sept 2, 2014 10:45:26 GMT -5
My husband because he basically got to play all weekend while I was on kid-duty and she was fucking beast last night, and he didn't get it at all. He should have been kissing my ass and doing things like IDK, picking up the fucking house after she destroyed it. I left to go to the grocery store when he got home so I didn't kill both of them and not only did he not put her to bed like I asked, she was playing with my clean laundry in the dog water.
AND I cut like 4-5 inches off my hair on Friday and none of my girlfriends or co-workers have noticed. WTF?
The Pre-K bus dropped off my 4 year old at the wrong stop this morning. A mile from home. Despite her bus stop taped in florescent duct tape to her bag and 2 phone calls from me this morning to make sure they get shit right.
That isn't an annoyance, that's cause for full-blown rage. I'd be livid!
I'm now 6 days late. I have the poos and I'm so damned tired that I just want to go back to bed. H had a V and testing showed he is sterile but I'm still considering POAS just to ease my mind.
The Pre-K bus dropped off my 4 year old at the wrong stop this morning. A mile from home. Despite her bus stop taped in florescent duct tape to her bag and 2 phone calls from me this morning to make sure they get shit right.
Can we talk about this? Because I would be burning shit down. Also, when a 4yr old is "dropped off" does that mean without checking to see if there is a parent there to pick them up?
HOW DOES THIS FUCKING HAPPEN? I NEED TO KNOW.
Signed,
Parent of a 4yr old that is WTFing your school right now.
Post by deanlicker78 on Sept 2, 2014 11:29:35 GMT -5
At my second job there are a lot of restrictions on what you can do during the first 90 days of employment. You can't get floated to another floor, you can't train anyone, etc.
Last night they tried floating me, and when I got sent back to my home floor I wound up training someone. I have not even been there 30 days yet.
The Pre-K bus dropped off my 4 year old at the wrong stop this morning. A mile from home. Despite her bus stop taped in florescent duct tape to her bag and 2 phone calls from me this morning to make sure they get shit right.
What? Fuck that. Holy shit dude, I'm freaking out thinking about that!
I'm now 6 days late. I have the poos and I'm so damned tired that I just want to go back to bed. H had a V and testing showed he is sterile but I'm still considering POAS just to ease my mind.
My bf's brother is currently expecting his second child post vasectomy. I'd definitely poas!
This long weekend has been an absolute disaster. We are going home today and I can't wait. It won't solve all of our problems, since L is growth spurting and teething (her top gums are really swollen and she cut the left-of-center tooth yesterday), but it will solve most.
Also, I'm pretty sure this is the last year we vacation with my in-laws.
I'm annoyed because I'm still at work. Only because I'm waiting for a sales rep to get here. Then I'm going to peace out. I seriously have done nothing since 10am other than eat.
My H has to sleep with a fan blowing on him. It has been a point of contention our entire marriage and the main reason we sleep separately. Last night, I noticed that he has a quilt and a fleece blanket over him, AND he had his head covered w/ a pillow and the quilt. 0% of his skin was exposed. And the fan was just sitting there, whirring away. I can hear it even with earplugs in, I guess because it vibrates the floor and up the legs of the bed. lol, I know this sounds crazy. But I just want peace and quiet for one part of my day. I have slept badly since he moved back into the master. We need a 4 br house.
I'll just apologize on behalf of your husband. This is me. I hate being hot and love being cold when I sleep. Our fan is on every night and I am bundled up. It used to piss my husband off but now he's over it.
DH and I recently had to take some financial help from his mom. We didn't ask, she offered, and she's insisting it's a gift, not a loan, etc, etc, etc. there's a million reasons I shouldn't feel bad about this.
But we're 29/30, and we've *never* taken help from anyone before ... and frankly, I don't like my MIL. While I'm incredibly grateful that she helped and I know she won't hold it over our heads, a part of me is just extremely resentful that I now feel obligating to kiss her ass for the rest if my life for this.
Post by sofamonkey on Sept 2, 2014 12:36:51 GMT -5
I am at work. They won't give me anything to do though. I am instructed to "just answer the phone when it rings." It hasn't rung in an hour. I have made offers to do things, because I have a hard time not doing things.
Oh, and my DH CANNOT MAKE COFFEE!! It always has a ton of grounds in it. He says he likes when I make it because it tastes better. I truly think he does not notice the grounds when he makes coffee. Jerk. lol
My H has to sleep with a fan blowing on him. It has been a point of contention our entire marriage and the main reason we sleep separately. Last night, I noticed that he has a quilt and a fleece blanket over him, AND he had his head covered w/ a pillow and the quilt. 0% of his skin was exposed. And the fan was just sitting there, whirring away. I can hear it even with earplugs in, I guess because it vibrates the floor and up the legs of the bed. lol, I know this sounds crazy. But I just want peace and quiet for one part of my day. I have slept badly since he moved back into the master. We need a 4 br house.
H and I use an air cleaner as "white noise." Would that be an option? It sits on a night stand so there is no vibration. Or does he really like the air blowing on him?
I'm now 6 days late. I have the poos and I'm so damned tired that I just want to go back to bed. H had a V and testing showed he is sterile but I'm still considering POAS just to ease my mind.
My bf's brother is currently expecting his second child post vasectomy. I'd definitely poas!
I would not be a happy camper and would likely freak the fuck out.