Could you date/marry a bad kisser?

[riverpestie]

Eh, as long as he knows how to use his tongue! 


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[cuddlyevil]

Stbx was a decent kisser when we dated, then he improved a bit through my direction. Then he went back to being not so good.

I've nexted guys for being bad in bed, so I guess my answer is no?

[Deleted]

Hmm, I don't think XH was that great of a kisser. We rarely kissed for more than a peck or whatever. But the sex was good and since we basically always had sex vs. just making out, it didn't really matter.

I am far more likely to just make out with my BF, who is a good kisser, and I do think it's nicer to have that option But probably wouldn't be a dealbreaker again either.

[pantsoffdanceoff]

I don't think so. I'm scared that I'm a bad kisser now because I am so out of practice.

[1confused1]

No I couldn't.

Brought to you by the incredible make out session I had last night.

[berbles]

It depends on how bad, and when it's really bad.

Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.

But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Is give him some hints and tips, but if he was still insistent on licking my face or coming at me with fish lips, I can't stick it out. Life is too short for bad kissers.

[achase123]

Nope. Kissing is important to me


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[GilliC]

I don't think my SO is a good kisser. I'm not sure I would go so far as to say he's bad. Just mediocre.

I definitely dated a bad kisser in high school, and there's no way I would have stayed with him unless I managed to coach him on technique.

[shauniemae]

I'm pretty sure the answer is no. I have come to realize I really enjoy kissing, so it's important.

[Deleted]

FUCK NO. Ew.

[becwheat]

I don't think so... I am pretty sure I have never gone on more than one date with a bad kisser, so there is that!!

I LOVE making out. It is so much fun! I need some good kisses.

[peppermint]

hellz naw.

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Sept 17, 2014 12:26:13 GMT -5 berbles said:

It depends on how bad, and when it's really bad.

Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.

But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.

Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!

[WinterIsComing]

Sept 17, 2014 12:47:52 GMT -5 becwheat said:

I don't think so... I am pretty sure I have never gone on more than one date with a bad kisser, so there is that!!

I LOVE making out. It is so much fun! I need some good kisses.

I'm here - even when you have been together for a long time, a good make out session can still be fun! I don't think a bad kisser would make it past a few dates.

[becwheat]

Sept 17, 2014 13:14:48 GMT -5 @wandering said:

Sept 17, 2014 12:26:13 GMT -5 berbles said:

It depends on how bad, and when it's really bad.

Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.

But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.

Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!

Truth! I especially love a tipsy make out session.

[shauniemae]

Sept 17, 2014 13:08:15 GMT -5 Lucy Honeychurch said:

Sept 17, 2014 12:40:39 GMT -5 shauniemae said:

I'm pretty sure the answer is no. I have come to realize I really enjoy kissing, so it's important.

Don't take this the wrong way or anything, but holy crap, you are SO PRETTY. 

Aww, thanks  Make a girl blush...that's a great ego boost. A good picture helps. Lol. That's sweet of you.

[Wanderista]

No, I could not seriously be with someone who I do not think is a good kisser. I think kissing says a lot about chemistry and it is definitely important to me. I love to kiss and make out. Different people are into different styles of kissing but I need for it to "click". I do have that with the BF. I wasn't sure how it was going to go with him because we did not kiss until a few dates in and he has not had a lot of sexual experience. He was not a virgin but I am definitely the more experienced one. He's good though and it's very natural. 

I'm willing to work with someone while we learn each others' bodies but the kissing needs to make me want more for me to keep going there.

[berbles]

Sept 17, 2014 13:14:48 GMT -5 @wandering said:

Sept 17, 2014 12:26:13 GMT -5 berbles said:

It depends on how bad, and when it's really bad.

Like, if he went in with teeth/trying to eat my face every time we kissed? Nope.

But if he just wasn't very good at heavy kissing/making out, ehhh, that's not something that really happens very often once you're married/been together a while. As long as he's good at the sex, I could overlook him being a bad frencher.

Really? I've always loved making out and have done it with all 3 of my long term relationships. I love kissing!

Fair enough - I haven't been in many LTRs.

[kitkat1502]

No because I think a bad kisser for me would kill the chemistry and the attraction. If we'd be fooling around I'd be like "ughhhhh here we go again with the kissing." So I'd find it hard to want that person.

[locarb]

I did date a bad kisser. I tried to teach him to be more sensual but he couldn't get out of his lizard ways with the darting tongue. I couldn't do it again.

[Deleted]

No!!!! I hated kissing until I realized it was the partner. No just no!

[stephreloaded]

Ehh I don't know. I guess it depends on how bad it is. The ex was a bad kisser when we started and he started getting better with time. He was never good though, he was just boring and I was still going to marry him.

[lexxasaurus]

My partner doesn't have to be the best kisser ever, but they have to be good and I need to enjoy it. I love making out. I'd be sad if that wasn't a good part of our relationship.

[jojoandleo]

Nope. And who are these "you stop kissing when married" people? I still kiss H! Often! I love kissing! And there is nothing worse than doing it and some guy going in to kiss you and totally spoiling the mood.

Back in the day, I may have had the patience to teach, but at 30? No. Sorry. This may be mean, or make me a bitch, but I just don't want to teach some one to kiss. I want the sexual attraction there with the first kiss!

[Deleted]

If the kissing is awful then the chemistry would not be there for me. 

[dreamcrisp1]

No. I loveeee kissing.

[pinkdutchtulips]

Short answer - NO !

[lookingup]

On my list of turn-offs, a bad kisser is up at the top. Like next to racist or sexist.

[kaneen]

No way I'd date a bad kisser!