Do people not make out anymore?

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Someone on SO said that people don't make out once they're married or in long term relationships. Is that true? If so, mind blown.

I've always loved making out in all 3 of my long term relationships. It was almost a daily thing with my boyfriend. Of course I miss the regular sex, but I also miss making out.

Maybe I'm the weirdo?

[zoomzoom]

Sadly, we don't as often anymore. But the kissing thread is making me want to go right home and plant one on him and go to town. Lol.

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I can't even recall the last time H and I made out.

I miss it...greatly.

[noodleskooze]

Sept 17, 2014 13:18:02 GMT -5 chilerellanos said:

We make out, but generally it's a means to an end. There's not that much making out just to make out anymore.

Same.

[motzie]

We are big fans of making out.

[FastHands]

We don't really make out unless it's going somewhere else. But I can't imagine NOT making out, either.

[starburst604]

We only make out as a lead up to and during sex. That makes me think we should try just making out sometime...

[hopecounts]

We still make out fairly regularly.
It's fun.

[meggers5]

I love making out, whether it leads somewhere or not.

That's one of the things I miss most. There are some needs I can take care of myself, but I can't kiss anyone but him.

[mellymel]

Sept 17, 2014 13:18:02 GMT -5 chilerellanos said:

We make out, but generally it's a means to an end. There's not that much making out just to make out anymore.

Same here.  One of the benefits of being married is that it always leads to something more.

[Gato]

We do make out but the conditions have to be right. 1) No chores, bills, or other issues hanging over us 2) no kid is having a bad night sleeping 3) the night before wasn't exhausting for some reason and I just want to crash.  We've been together for 12 years and when a make out session happens it's a great jolt to our relationship.  I just don't expect it.

[rageragerage]

I am rarely interested in kissing, so we don't make out unless it is to make fun of other people, or to piss off the dogs.

[amberlyrose]

Sept 17, 2014 13:20:12 GMT -5 Lucy Honeychurch said:

We like it. KHC has assigned reading times at night for half an hour, so we take advantage of it and make out on the couch while he's upstairs reading. It feels like high school, like your dad's about to come downstairs and catch you. lol.

Ok, this is cute. 

[amberlyrose]

I love short make out sessions when we're going out and make out in the car before we go inside to meet up with people. It's like HS all over again. The anticipation about getting home is always fun.

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Sept 17, 2014 13:33:01 GMT -5 jenny1980 said:

Psh. Without sex? No. Ain't nobody got time for that.

I didn't mean a 2 hour make out session during the movies, ha.

Just 20 seconds or whatever at night, before bed, when waking up, before leaving the house, etc. 

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Sept 17, 2014 13:35:47 GMT -5 chilerellanos said:

Also, when we make out, in my mind I kind of pretend I'm back in HS. Makes it more fun for me to imagine that we might get caught. I would never tell my husband this because it's weird. Lol

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Ha, I don't think that's weird at all!

I love the quick make out sessions where you might get caught  

[venice2007]

We make out

[starlily]

Sept 17, 2014 13:18:02 GMT -5 chilerellanos said:

We make out, but generally it's a means to an end. There's not that much making out just to make out anymore.

Ditto, except for those 6 weeks postpartum. Then we just made out to make out.

[CloudBee]

Often. Lots of random groping in our house.

[Deleted]

Not as often as when we were young and horny but I do stick my tongue in H's mouth as often as he will let me,

[Deleted]

We make out just to make out pretty often. Just a couple minutes, not hour long make out sessions.

[pt716]

We hardly ever do, but that's because I don't like it.

[iamgrace]

I love making out. So does my H.

[Deleted]

No. With or without sex, just no.

[1confused1]

I do. We had a great session last night. Sometimes he comes over just to make out and then leaves.

[Deleted]

We kiss several times a day, and usually some are open mouth. Even more frequently when we've been drinking, because I get really touchy feely and he's not always big on drunk sex (lol)so it's the best compromise. But I usually think of making out as being more than kissing with tounge - things like heavy petting. We don't generally do that unless it is a form of foreplay.

[jlt19]

We've been doing it a lot lately, but he usually wants more. I sometimes give in, but not usually b/c it's when the kids are right in the other room or something. They're only 2 and 4, no need to traumatize them this young, there's plenty of time for that later.

[Deleted]

I don't remember the last time we made out. Even when having sex. I need to breathe. Lol

[dirtyred]

I would love to just make out, but if we do, DH always wants sex, and then when I tell him I don't, he gets all pouty.