He freaked out last night

[eb777888]

((hugs MB)) Give this some time to sink it. It's a big adjustment for you guys!

[styme46]

I hope your talk goes well tonight.

(((HUGS)))

[lagom]

Hugs, (mb)

[wkatie]

It's a ton to take in. I am sure you will both have times of freak outs. Positive thoughts to you.

[berbles]

Huge hugs, MB. I have a feeling you will each be riding your own emotional roller coasters for a little while. That's normal.

[Deleted]

I'm sure you had similar thoughts when you found out, right. I can imagine it being quite the shock when you are actively preventing and being responsible. I'm sure he'll come around, I hope things work out for you both.

[laceylaplante]

((Hugs)) Good luck on your talk.

[Yankees21]

So many hugs. It's often a huge shock to the system even if you are planning it. Give him some time, but you've got to do what's right for you.

[Deleted]

Hugs. This is a lot to process. It will all work itself out. You two (three!!) are in my thoughts

[nadasteph]

My h had a freak out and we were trying to get pregnant. Hugs. I'm sure he needs some time to get used to the idea.

[Deleted]

(((hugs))) - this feels like a normal response to me. hell, even with planned pregnancies it's a hard concept to get your mind around!

[bania]

Sending you all my good vibes. (((hugs)))

[sofamonkey]

Yeah, I get that he's freaking out now that things are setting in. Maybe he has some guy friends he can also lean on? Sorry this is so tough. HUGE hugs

[flex]

I understand the delayed freak-out. It happens.

I'm crossing everything (including butt hairs lol) that this will turn out happily for everyone.

[ZoeHart]

((Hugs)) it's a lot to take in but I hope the talk goes well.

[lauralala]

So many positive thoughts your way. I hope your talk goes well.

[awick14]

((Hugs))

[laddie]

Hugs! I hope the talk goes well for you both.

[alzi]

I'm sure both of you will have your freak outs. I hope he calms down and your talk goes well. (((Mb)))

[lovelovelove]

Good thoughts to you!

[lucky513]

[oswin]

Hugs. I think freaking out is normal, hopefully it will pass quickly.

[Deleted]

Sending vibes for a good talk. Oh shit moments like this are totally normal.

[cleo29]

Big hugs. I freaked out and I WAS trying to get pregnant.

You had a day or two on him with this knowledge, so he might just need to catch up. I hope your talk goes well!

[gretchenindisguise]

I think it's completely normal to be having those kind of freakouts. Even very planned pregnancies come with freak outs and "holy shit what did we get ourselves into". I'm still having those thoughts....and my kid is 5.

I think his initial reaction was his most honest emotional reaction and his brain will catch up to it.

[SKP82]

Huge hugs. I'll be sending good thoughts your way.

[luckyval]

Good luck MB, you are so incredibly strong.

(((Hug)))

[Deleted]

((Hugs MB))

[HiC]

Sending you lots of good thoughts. Everything will be okay.

[bohemianmango]

I think it's a normal reaction. My DH and I both had a few freakouts after our unexpected pregnancy with DD2.

It's great he's being open with you. I hope the talk goes well.