I designed a website for a client today and it went live right away because she loved it so much! It was easy but I did photoshop her profile pic a bit to make her look better, which had me feeling both bad and good at the same time.
I'm currently working on an infographic but need to go to bed.
So a girl I went to HS with just messaged me about something I listed on a local yard sale site. Then she asked if we planned to have anymore kiddos (which is ballsy to ask anyone period). I reply no and that I was no longer with H. She replied to say sorry she felt bad for asking (as she should). Then she replies that she believes everything happens for a reason.
Um thanks. That's what I need to hear tonight. I really don't care about the exchange but ugh it's annoying, and I don't really understand what it's supposed to mean.
Eta: and she just added a "it will all work out". Wut??
FormerlyRR, totally jealous of all that awesome sex you had! Get it!
I posted on FB that I was feeling pretty lousy because I don't have help with DS when I work and have to stay up for 36+ hours at a time. One friend commented "at least your baby is healthy". Yeah no shit. I'm so so happy and grateful that my child is healthy but really? I just wanted to feel sorry for myself for a few minutes that I stay exhausted and that I feel like I am a crappy parent when I work because I'm too exhausted to really do much and end up using the TV to occupy my son's time instead of doing all the stuff that other typical SAHM's get to do since technically I am home during the day everyday.
It was pointed out to me also by another friend that I could "always switch to days". Well no I can't. I need my differentials that I earn by working nights to make ends meet and would be screwed if I didn't have them.
I did not plan to be a single mom. It happened and sometimes it can be a little overwhelming.
I posted on FB that I was feeling pretty lousy because I don't have help with DS when I work and have to stay up for 36+ hours at a time. One friend commented "at least your baby is healthy". Yeah no shit. I'm so so happy and grateful that my child is healthy but really? I just wanted to feel sorry for myself for a few minutes that I stay exhausted and that I feel like I am a crappy parent when I work because I'm too exhausted to really do much and end up using the TV to occupy my son's time instead of doing all the stuff that other typical SAHM's get to do since technically I am home during the day everyday.
It was pointed out to me also by another friend that I could "always switch to days". Well no I can't. I need my differentials that I earn by working nights to make ends meet and would be screwed if I didn't have them.
I did not plan to be a single mom. It happened and sometimes it can be a little overwhelming.
I'm sorry your FB friends weren't more supportive. That's why I post things here--those who are in similar situations understand what you're going though and can let you just vent. Obviously you can post what you want on FB but posting woe is me stuff on FB will definitely open you up to things that you don't alway want to hear (hugs)
I'm seeing that now for sure. The latest one is now saying that if I could have afforded a trip to Antigua I should be able to afford a nanny and daycare or to switch to a day shift job. Seriously...and these are my friends?
I'm seeing that now for sure. The latest one is now saying that if I could have afforded a trip to Antigua I should be able to afford a nanny and daycare or to switch to a day shift job. Seriously...and these are my friends?
Either your friends are assholes or you complain too much on FB that's horrible!