Post by miamigirl on Sept 30, 2014 11:05:55 GMT -5
I'm so so sad.
We had our 6 week appointment and everything went great. We got our first U/S and saw the baby's heartbeat.
Last Wednesday we had our next appointment (10w 3d) and we found out that the baby had stopped growing at 9 weeks and had no heartbeat. I couldn't believe it. I hadn't had any pain, or spotting, no signs at all, so it made it even harder to process.
I had a D&C on Friday and I'm still healing from it. I'm just an emotional wreck.
Love of my life baby boy born 11/11. One and done not by choice; 3 years of TTC yielded 4 MMC and 2 CPs, through 4 IUIs and 2 IVFs. Focusing on making the world a better place instead...and running.
Please let me know if there is anything I can do or if you want to talk...and ditto MrsMB, if you're feeling up to it any time soon, or in the future, Through the Heart might be a helpful resource for you.
Post by luv2rn4fun on Sept 30, 2014 11:45:48 GMT -5
I'm so so sorry for your loss Truly, there are no words. I'm here if you ever need to talk...my first m/c was pretty identical to your experience (hb at 7 1/2 weeks, no hb at 10 1/2 weeks, D&C at 11 1/2 weeks). So many ((hugs)). I'm really sorry you are going through this.
I am so, so sorry for your loss. I recently lost my first pregnancy and it's heart breaking. It's been two weeks since my d&c and I still feel lost/sad/angry. It will take time, be kind to yourself.
I'm so sorry to hear this. I know that I'm new to posting here, but I had a mm/c in July and have been having a hard time with it recently. It sucks. Definitely take the time to feel what you need to feel. I'm here for you if you want to talk.