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[CloudBee]

I would personally avoid a chain strap if this will be your primary purse. They can be very comfortable. But they don't slide along your arm the same way if you need to sort of swing it onto your back/shoulder blade as you bend over or carry a kid. I would only do a chain strap as a secondary back or one in rotation with others.

I can't believe you haven't pulled the trigger, yet!!

ETA: I would still consider TB, as you seem to be drawn to it.  Look at their satchels and totes. I like having the option of a longer strap, and handles. www.toryburch.com/handbags/view-all/#?prefn1=color&prefv1=Black

[shell24]

I have a Tory (Marion tote) that has the strap that goes through the top opening. With kids,I often dig in my purse while it is still on my shoulder and it is a giant PITA with that strap. I also have the Amanda and it's a great bag, but probably not big enough for your needs.

If you like Tory, I would look at the Triple zip satchel or the Robinson line for a structured bag.

[v]

Agree that a chain may not be ideal for every day.

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[DirtySouth]

I'm obsessed with the Rebecca Minkoff MAB Tote. I have two and use it for both work and personal stuff. IMO, it's the perfect size for a diaper bag that can also be used for other purposes. It's really nice leather and only $295.