I'm sorry Chesh. I do think you're having a knee jerk reaction. But take some time and think about this. No friend forces you to keep secrets like these.
This just reminded me of a book about child sexual abuse I had as a kid. Good secrets versus bad secrets.
Chesh, Woct purportedly posted a list on the Nest of people's names!!! Remember the list of names that she attached to Facebook profiles? How do you not remember the drama surrounding her? Or just google it? Oh man. I don't typically say things like this, but I would stay away from her, Chesh.
I've been here since 2005 and I don't remember any of this.
She posted a list of nestie names including my own and my friends. She made up a story of being hit by a drunk driver, being bed bound, having a miscarriage and suffering infertility as a result. She has lied about an amazing number of things to a lot of us for years. I'm sorry that your friend turned out to be psycho. I think you are a good person who made a really bad judgement call.
Being friends does not mean ignoring behavior that is terrible. I feel for you, Chesh, I do, but I hope you take care of you. Some things are not defendable.
I'm sorry Chesh. I do think you're having a knee jerk reaction. But take some time and think about this. No friend forces you to keep secrets like these.
Sequins is so wise. I hope you take the time to process, Chesh. There are a lot of good folks standing up for you right now-- you don't need friends who make you shoulder something like this.
She posted a list of nestie names including my own and my friends. She made up a story of being hit by a drunk driver, being bed bound, having a miscarriage and suffering infertility as a result. She has lied about an amazing number of things to a lot of us for years. I'm sorry that your friend turned out to be psycho. I think you are a good person who made a really bad judgement call.
Yeah, yuck. Regardless of whether her photobucket album was private or not really isn't the point here. Just because she changed her screenname doesn't mean she isn't the same person who posted all of this ^^^ and now has photos of people AND THEIR KIDS.
Post by TrickyBob on Sept 30, 2014 22:34:37 GMT -5
I hope Chesh gets rid of this loser, whomever she truly is. MB/Woc/MC/Whatever is clearly a very selfish little girl who doesn't understand that real life hardships, like miscarriage, fucking hurt and aren't a joke. People fucking CARED, must be an awesome party at MB's now that she can sit back and watch shit burn.
She posted a list of nestie names including my own and my friends. She made up a story of being hit by a drunk driver, being bed bound, having a miscarriage and suffering infertility as a result. She has lied about an amazing number of things to a lot of us for years. I'm sorry that your friend turned out to be psycho. I think you are a good person who made a really bad judgement call.
Ok, come clean. How many more of you are straight up dumbasses? I mean, who cares how nice someone may be when they clearly lack good sense? Not that I should have to explain these things, but you never know around here. Goodness.
So, does Chesh think she is pregnant or not? Because in the original thread that Chesh had deleted, she said that MB (Woct, whatev)was still pg. I haven't met Chesh in person, but she doesn't strike me as someone who would outright lie for someone to the whole board.
She posted a list of nestie names including my own and my friends. She made up a story of being hit by a drunk driver, being bed bound, having a miscarriage and suffering infertility as a result. She has lied about an amazing number of things to a lot of us for years. I'm sorry that your friend turned out to be psycho. I think you are a good person who made a really bad judgement call.
This was Mental Chlorox, who as far as I know was never confirmed to be Woct. Obviously, I don't know anything right now.
And to nuggetbrain, please don't say that I knew she made up a miscarriage. I know no such thing. As far as I know, MB had a previous pregnancy a few years back which resulted in miscarriage. She is currently pregnant now, and we all know that story. If she's lying to me, then obviously I'm the dumbest person on the planet, but I believe what is going on now. I have no idea about stories associated with other screen names, and honestly, so many different things are getting mixed up right now that I'm not sure anyone else does either.
I'm sorry that everyone seems to think I'm somehow complicit, or even to blame for this. All I know is that I have tried to stand by a friend. If that was the wrong choice, well, I'll deal with the fallout.
Being friends does not mean ignoring behavior that is terrible. I feel for you, Chesh, I do, but I hope you take care of you. Some things are not defendable.
Chesire, I know you mean well and want to stick up for a person you believe is a friend but come on. Unless you sat next to her during an ultrasound, I am 99.9% sure she's not pregnant.
She doesn't even know what is reality and what is made-up in her fucked up head anymore.
I'm sad that everyone is all ready to take up pitchforks and torches against Cheshire when it seems like she is a victim like everyone else here. Perhaps more so.