"Not gonna lie; I kind of keep expecting you to post one day that you threw down on someone who clearly had no idea that today was NOT THEIR DAY." ~dontcallmeshirley
That's why I haven't come into Aretha's hot mess yet despite the page.
Oh you know you don't need to explain all that.
I'm really very sorry about your friend and those poor babies. It's one of my worst fears, dying before pinky is all grown up. I wouldn't want my babies separated. So I'm devastated for you and your friend's family.