I'm also pretty care free when going out. As long as my food tastes good and you keep my beverage filled and never empty I'm a happy camper. The only time I've ever sent anything back was when it was raw.
You have not answered my question about if you find your behavior has a negative impact on your life or if you have ever sought medical diagnosis. You eat out frequently, yet you seem to have a large percentage of unhappy meals for many reasons.
Also, you have not addressed how it is fine for you to insult us and call US lazy, iodiot, etc. We are caring about your feelings by addressing you politely and respectfully, and yet you are not affording us the same courtesies. You are showing blatant disregard for us and "being mean" and "hurting our feelings" while we have remained polite. This is directly opposite your self-professed views towards servers (they hurt my feelings first so then I'm rude.)
Ma'am, please see a licensed mental health practitioner, preferably a reputable psychiatrist, as I feel you might learn some valuable information and possibly a more pleasant life.
I'm also pretty care free when going out. As long as my food tastes good and you keep my beverage filled and never empty I'm a happy camper. The only time I've ever sent anything back was when it was raw.
You probably aren't a picky eater are you?
Nope. And it's a luxury for us to go out to eat so we don't do it often. And when we do most of the time we are eating off the happy hour menu or splitting dishes.
You completely and absolutely overlooked the whole mathematical explanation I just layed out for you above regarding your time = money and showing the statistical waste of money by taking time to check.
I know what I ordered costs, therefore I glance at my bill to make sure the total is what I expect. If there is a discrepancy, I ask. This is neither lazy nor uncaring.
I am going to contine my enjoyable day. I wish you the very best and hope one day you can receive the care you obviously need.
And it's a luxury for us to go out to eat so we don't do it often.
That's why you don't understand *********A THING********** OF WHAT WE HAVE EXPERIENCED. I use to be the same way back when I was 20yrs old when I first worked at the donut shop since I had NEVER hardly eaten out much, I didn't know how it felt to be that customer that had problems. Once a lady complained her croissant was cold, I thought she was just complaining to complain and ignored her completely. I didn't understand, because I wasn't a customer hardly EVER to understand. That's how you seem to be. Today, I couldn't **********FATHOM**************treating another human being like that, because now *I* am that customer with the cold croissant or messed up food. I am on the other side of the situation, back then I wasn't.
You completely and absolutely overlooked the whole mathematical explanation I just layed out for you above regarding your time = money and showing the statistical waste of money by taking time to check.
WHY does that matter if the person you are paying makes THEIR MONEY MORE IMPORTANT THAN YOURS, HUH? They can verify these prices while you are eating for example, if you order a dessert, they can verify the price of the dessert BEFORE you even get your dessert and could have verified the rest of your check when you were waiting for your food and didn't need anything else not altering your time any.
I know what I ordered costs, therefore I glance at my bill to make sure the total is what I expect. If there is a discrepancy, I ask. This is neither lazy nor uncaring.
YOU ARE STUPID AND LAZY TO TRUST ANYONE with your money. You don't know the exact price if you only "GLANCE", because I am willing to be you don't remember if something was let's say $5.49. Maybe you know one or two, but all, I doubt you remember from memory. I don't remember all of them from memory.
And it's a luxury for us to go out to eat so we don't do it often.
That's why you don't understand *********A THING********** OF WHAT WE HAVE EXPERIENCED. I use to be the same way back when I was 20yrs old when I first worked at the donut shop since I had NEVER hardly eaten out much, I didn't know how it felt to be that customer that had problems. Once a lady complained her croissant was cold, I thought she was just complaining to complain and ignored her completely. I didn't understand, because I wasn't a customer hardly EVER to understand. That's how you seem to be. Today, I couldn't **********FATHOM**************treating another human being like that, because now *I* am that customer with the cold croissant or messed up food. I am on the other side of the situation, back then I wasn't.
I ate out all the time as a kid and a young adult. Now that I'm married and living in my own salary I can't afford it. I have been there before but it just didn't matter. You an I just have different dining opinions.
I ate out all the time as a kid and a young adult. Now that I'm married and living in my own salary I can't afford it. I have been there before but it just didn't matter. You an I just have different dining opinions.
But it wasn't your money as a kid that *YOU* WORKED HARD for, it was your parents.
As a young adult, you may have worked for your money, but you weren't all on your own to pay all of your bills like you are now I am assuming.
So it's VERY DIFFERENT when it's not *YOUR* money paying as to how you feel about the service.
Also, as you said, you aren't a picky eater, so less things happened to you than me and you may not have even noticed an overcharge for example.
By the way, I am still awaiting your apology for having called us idiots. But I shan't hold my breath or I would die of asphyxiation. But then, you only care if someone forgets your ranch and doesn't apologize, that's more important than your own actions towards others.
You are just very high maintenance and as lazy as those people that you are calling lazy. I can't understand not cooking and going out to eat every night. That is a waste of money. I can cook well and normally would rather eat what I or my H cook. Going out is nice when I don't feel like cooking.
If there was something majorly wrong with my food, like the one time my entire plate was raw, I send it back and I complain. If it's a minor thing I normally don't worry about it because it's not worth the time to fix it. We can't afford to eat out 90% of the time.
as lazy as those people that you are calling lazy.
To cook, I will 100 BILLION PERCENT AGREE WITH YOU ON THAT. I HATE COOKING, it's too much work and BORING for me.
With doing my work at work such as when I worked at any of my jobs, especially comparing the donut shop since it was on my feet serving customers sometimes double, even triple shifts even, I WASN'T LAZY AT ALL, NOR AM I WITH MY WORK at ANY JOBS I HAVE EVER HELD NOR HOUSEWORK EVEN.
That's an ((((((((((((OPINION))))))))))))!! In *MY* opinion getting your hair and nails done in salons or even getting your hair cut is a waste of money. I haven't had a hair cut since probably 2000 or 2001. I never have gotten my nails or hair done in a salon. I have more important to me things to spend my money on.
I think buying 30 pairs of shoes is wasting money. I probably have 6 or so pairs of shoes which of those are only 3 pairs of dressy shoes.
I think pets are a waste of money to have. I rather spend the money on myself.
See how it's an *OPINION* of what is wasting money?
I don't feel at all that eating out is a waste of money, because for me it's what I look forward to.
IIf there was something majorly wrong with my food, like the one time my entire plate was raw, I send it back and I complain. If it's a minor thing I normally don't worry about it because it's not worth the time to fix it.
That's because you are not a picky eater, so you could care less.
It's "you couldn't care less"! If you say could care less than that means that you can actually care less.
See I think going out to eat even once a week is a waste of money. But then I cook only 2 or 3 days a week and then eat left overs the nights I don't cook because most nights I'm just cooking for me and my 1 year old since my husband works nights. I get one night a week with my H so most of the time I don't want to spend that one night going out to dinner and there is no way in hell I'm going on my own.
I have my opinion and you have yours. That is the nice thing we are all allowed to have our own opinions. And it was rude of me to call you lazy as it was also rude of you to call me and IK stupid and idiots.
See that's where we differ, once a year my husband works a weekend, I go out to eat by myself. I LOVE RESTAURANT FOOD. In *MY* opinion it taste SOOO MUCH BETTER THAN HOME COOKED FOOD. I also just like being out the house. Especially now with no job.
Your husband works 1 weekend a year? My husband works 6 nights a week. If he is working I'm home and if I'm working he is home. If I have a day off he is sleeping the whole day since the days I work he only gets naps because of our son. I see him very rarely during the week because as soon as I get home he goes to take a nap before work and then I go to bed just as he is leaving. I also have a 1 year old I would have to take with me and I don't like wrangling him in a restaurant by myself. We are going to have to agree to disagree. Our lifestyles are very different and different things have their importance to each of us.
Your husband works 1 weekend a year? My husband works 6 nights a week. If he is working I'm home and if I'm working he is home. If I have a day off he is sleeping the whole day since the days I work he only gets naps because of our son. I see him very rarely during the week because as soon as I get home he goes to take a nap before work and then I go to bed just as he is leaving. I also have a 1 year old I would have to take with me and I don't like wrangling him in a restaurant by myself. We are going to have to agree to disagree. Our lifestyles are very different and different things have their importance to each of us.
I meant as far as *WEEKENDS GO*. He works M-F as well. Sorry if I got you confused.
Your husband works 1 weekend a year? My husband works 6 nights a week. If he is working I'm home and if I'm working he is home. If I have a day off he is sleeping the whole day since the days I work he only gets naps because of our son. I see him very rarely during the week because as soon as I get home he goes to take a nap before work and then I go to bed just as he is leaving. I also have a 1 year old I would have to take with me and I don't like wrangling him in a restaurant by myself. We are going to have to agree to disagree. Our lifestyles are very different and different things have their importance to each of us.
I meant as far as *WEEKENDS GO*. He works M-F as well. Sorry if I got you confused.
Still not the same. You don't work and he works M-F. My husband and I work opposite shifts fully and don't see each other for more than 10 minutes most days.
See that's where we differ, once a year my husband works a weekend, I go out to eat by myself. I LOVE RESTAURANT FOOD. In *MY* opinion it taste SOOO MUCH BETTER THAN HOME COOKED FOOD. I also just like being out the house. Especially now with no job.
You eat at Hooter's. If that's better than home cooked food, you must be a *terrible* effing cook.
In *MY* opinion getting your hair and nails done in salons or even getting your hair cut is a waste of money. I haven't had a hair cut since probably 2000 or 2001.
Personal hygiene is not a waste of money, FYI.
HOW IS THAT PERSONAL HYGIENE to risk getting INFECTIONS at a nail salon like Paula Abdul did back many years ago, huh?
NONE of that has to do with hygiene, NONE OF IT!! Cutting your hair has NOTHING to do with hygiene. In fact, if someone else had lice and you sit in the same chair, you can get it.
I suspect the poor service you receive in restaurants is perhaps due more to your attitude than the ineptness of any server you encounter, who.
NO, it's due to LAZY ASS, UNCARING SERVERS. Once they see I want for example, 2 ranches, 2 mayos, 1 mustard, 1 honey mustard, my burger with bacon very crispy etc, etc. they are too lazy to want to do the *WORK* for the money, so they'd rather not get the tip. It has NOTHING to do with attitude from me, it's THEIR LAZY ASS AND UNCARING, UNWILLING ATTITUDE TO DO THE JOB.
2. If you're going to be a condescending b*tch on a message board,
I have a right to be condescending when the shoe fits.
NO, it's due to LAZY ASS, UNCARING SERVERS. Once they see I want for example, 2 ranches, 2 mayos, 1 mustard, 1 honey mustard, my burger with bacon very crispy etc, etc. they are too lazy to want to do the *WORK* for the money, so they'd rather not get the tip. It has NOTHING to do with attitude from me, it's THEIR LAZY ASS AND UNCARING, UNWILLING ATTITUDE TO DO THE JOB.
given the establishments you choose to dine at - is certainly not being paid nearly enough to put up with your bullsh*t.
You sound VERY LAZY AND UNCARING!!
Wow just wow! If you give them that many demands for your order I can see how they would find it just easier to be rude to you. That is a long list of demands.
Wow just wow! If you give them that many demands for your order I can see how they would find it just easier to be rude to you. That is a long list of demands.
It's not "DEMANDS", it's a set of ***************INSTRUCTIONS************OF HOW TO SERVE ME YOU STUPID IDIOT!! YOU ARE FUCKING LAZY ASS AND UNCARING!
It's not a long list of "DEMANDS", because I don't tell them in a mean way. I tell them NICELY "I would like the such-n-such with this, this this and this, but this I would like it this way, etc."
YOU SOUND SO LAZY ASS TO CALL INSTRUCTIONS(YOUR JOB AS A SERVER, "DEMANDS"!!
HOW IS THAT PERSONAL HYGIENE to risk getting INFECTIONS at a nail salon like Paula Abdul did back many years ago, huh?
NONE of that has to do with hygiene, NONE OF IT!! Cutting your hair has NOTHING to do with hygiene. In fact, if someone else had lice and you sit in the same chair, you can get it.
You haven't cut your hair in over a decade. That's just gross. Given your lack of interest in maintaining your physical appearance, I can only reasonably surmise that your persona hygiene is lacking, too.
This. I get my hair cut a couple times a year because otherwise it is unmanageable. I find it disgusting to not cut your hair ever.
You haven't cut your hair in over a decade. That's just gross. Given your lack of interest in maintaining your physical appearance, I can only reasonably surmise that your persona hygiene is lacking, too.
My hair looks pretty. IT has NOTHING TO DO WITH HYGIENE. I wash my hair everyday, I take a shower everyday. What does CUTTING have to do with hygiene? WHY WASTE MONEY?
Wow just wow! If you give them that many demands for your order I can see how they would find it just easier to be rude to you. That is a long list of demands.
It's not "DEMANDS", it's a set of ***************INSTRUCTIONS************OF HOW TO SERVE ME YOU STUPID IDIOT!! YOU ARE FUCKING LAZY ASS AND UNCARING!
It's not a long list of "DEMANDS", because I don't tell them in a mean way. I tell them NICELY "I would like the such-n-such with this, this this and this, but this I would like it this way, etc."
YOU SOUND SO LAZY ASS TO CALL INSTRUCTIONS(YOUR JOB AS A SERVER, "DEMANDS"!!
NO, NOT SAME THING! A set of instructions is not a demand. Demanding is being mean about the job like saying "Hey you, GIVE ME a burger, you better give me some mayo" for example that would be demanding. I don't order like that. I ********ASK NICELY*************FOR THE THINGS I WANT. It's called *EARNING* that tip by *********WORKING YOUR ASS FOR IT******** LIKE THE JOB IS SUPPOSED TO BE.
NO, NOT SAME THING! A set of instructions is not a demand. Demanding is being mean about the job like saying "Hey you, GIVE ME a burger, you better give me some mayo" for example that would be demanding. I don't order like that. I ********ASK NICELY*************FOR THE THINGS I WANT. It's called *EARNING* that tip by *********WORKING YOUR ASS FOR IT******** LIKE THE JOB IS SUPPOSED TO BE.
After being called a stupid idiot numerous times I highly doubt you ask nicely for anything.
If I am going to spend money eating out there is no way in hell I would go to Hooter's or Applebee's unless I was meeting friends at one of those places. The food at either is utter crap.