I think it was missed in the original thread where you @starry I think asked if I nursed and I clearly said I pumped and bottle fed overnights. There was no baby to breast during sex.
And maybe the extra hormones from IVF caused the over the top sex drive, maybe it was the twin preg hormone overload, or maybe a combo. Either way, it's been blown out of proportion, saying I was nursing during it.
It stopped when they were really young, I forget the exact date, but likely four months or less.
I never deleted any info from posts so saying I did it while nursing is totally made up. Jeez.
I think it was missed in the original thread where you @starry I think asked if I nursed and I clearly said I pumped and bottle fed overnights. There was no baby to breast during sex.
And maybe the extra hormones from IVF caused the over the top sex drive, maybe it was the twin preg hormone overload, or maybe a combo. Either way, it's been blown out of proportion, saying I was nursing during it.
It stopped when they were really young, I forget the exact date, but likely four months or less.
I never deleted any info from posts so saying I did it while nursing is totally made up. Jeez.
So how exactly did this work though? I mean did the bottles get too shaken up ( gas? reflux?)? Do you ever feel strange about it now? Why didn't you just sleep and let your H take the wakeup and the feeding and then get it in later? I think I just like sleep more.... What about the post partum sweats? Did you have dryness from pumping/nursing?
I'm leaving to get my hair done soon, and I'll say what I can now. And @deej or whatever, you said I was ignoring because I was logged in. I'm exclusively on the app, and I think it shows me always logged in or something. Idk. I logged in May of 2012 and haven't logged out since, so don't go by last log in time.
It wasn't like we each had a baby in our arms and went at it. The babies got up around the same time, but not the exact instant. So there could be overlap, one was done eating and we would start, then other wakes, we stop, I feed with bottle, and they're back in rock and play. It was pumped milk. (I forget the questions because I didn't quote, so I'm answering off memory here). When Dh brings it up, it's in an omg remember how awesome it was when we had a frequent sex life, as now it is 2x week tops, and I don't even have a fraction of the drive I had then. Maybe it was all the fertility meds or twin hormones, because my single pregnancy was absolutely nothing like that. I had sex like twice in the whole pregnancy. So I'm assuming it was related to an overload of hormones.
I'm leaving to get my hair done soon, and I'll say what I can now. And @deej or whatever, you said I was ignoring because I was logged in. I'm exclusively on the app, and I think it shows me always logged in or something. Idk. I logged in May of 2012 and haven't logged out since, so don't go by last log in time.
It wasn't like we each had a baby in our arms and went at it. The babies got up around the same time, but not the exact instant. So there could be overlap, one was done eating and we would start, then other wakes, we stop, I feed with bottle, and they're back in rock and play. It was pumped milk. (I forget the questions because I didn't quote, so I'm answering off memory here). When Dh brings it up, it's in an omg remember how awesome it was when we had a frequent sex life, as now it is 2x week tops, and I don't even have a fraction of the drive I had then. Maybe it was all the fertility meds or twin hormones, because my single pregnancy was absolutely nothing like that. I had sex like twice in the whole pregnancy. So I'm assuming it was related to an overload of hormones.
Okay, so you are saying baby woke up you fed them, put them down, and then got it on. THAT is fine whatever. From your earlier post, I thought you were actively holding/feeding the baby while having sex. Which is inappropriate.
And since I suffered secondary infertility and it took six years and four cycles of IVF to conceive, I will likely not have any more children. I honestly doubt I've had that much sex since then. Combined. I suppose I could ask the dr but I'm figuring the fertility stuff contributed, since it was vastly different from my single child pregnancy and postpartum time.
And I'm confused on how when @this posted the paperclips, you didn't flat out say "No that's not even close because I was bottle feeding and we didn't actually have sex while feeding the babies."
I think you were extremely vague in your answers and when people continued to ask questions in that post, you kept on being vague.
That is why people were confused.
I don't recall being vague, I remember saying I wasn't comfortable making a diagram (thanks @this ). And I answered when asked about pumping/nursing/bottles/formula.
I just saw @starry poll about it and only read a handful of posts prior to this post. So if anything wasn't answered there, it's simply because I didn't see the thread.
This is an entirely different version than the OP.
It is what it is, but you had to have known that the internet would run with this. Admit it, own it, whatever but if you were okay with it, don't keep justifying it.
And since I suffered secondary infertility and it took six years and four cycles of IVF to conceive, I will likely not have any more children. I honestly doubt I've had that much sex since then. Combined. I suppose I could ask the dr but I'm figuring the fertility stuff contributed, since it was vastly different from my single child pregnancy and postpartum time.
Yeah, I am not doubting your high sex drive, more power to you for that. I do think having such a high sex drive that one is unable to control oneself while actively interacting with an infant is cause for concern. But it doesn't appear that that was the case here.
Post by Ashley&Scott on Oct 9, 2014 8:37:46 GMT -5
Sex between MOTN feedings is not the same as sex while feeding a baby. Totally different story than your OP, you should have explained more in the first place.
I think what you are saying in this post is definite back pedaling if not a direct contradiction of this post:
No I didn't wear them. I don't want to draw a diagram or anything,( ) but it worked out well. Like twice a night from like 5 weeks until about four months. Then we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep. They were up literally every two hours from birth until their first birthday.
Yeah I did IVF and there's absolutely no effect of the hormones in your system 14 months later.
I didn't know you had twins! Congrats. I thought you just had a little boy. There's a multiples board.
I don't know for a fact the IVF hormones did it, maybe the twin preg, all I meant was since I had that experience with my IVF twin preg but not my singleton, I was considering it for a reason.
I think what you are saying in this post is definite back pedaling if not a direct contradiction of this post:
No I didn't wear them. I don't want to draw a diagram or anything,( ) but it worked out well. Like twice a night from like 5 weeks until about four months. Then we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep. They were up literally every two hours from birth until their first birthday.
I didn't want to have to be the one to point this out because this whole thing is just, weird, wrong, I don't know. But yeah, what is being said now is completely different than this original post. Original post says after 4 months fed and ot back to sleep then sex. Before that it was while feeding them.
Post by undecidedowl on Oct 9, 2014 8:48:04 GMT -5
Explain to me why a diagram would have been necessary if the true story is that you were sexing it up while a baby slept in a RNP? You were either intentionally being vague or the story is changing.
I think what you are saying in this post is definite back pedaling if not a direct contradiction of this post:
No I didn't wear them. I don't want to draw a diagram or anything,( ) but it worked out well. Like twice a night from like 5 weeks until about four months. Then we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep. They were up literally every two hours from birth until their first birthday.
Her statement here doesn't really contradict what she's saying though. It actually doesn't really explain much. She was quite vague and could simply have stated that she did not have sex DURING the act of bottle feeding, when this created the paperclip illustration.
I think what you are saying in this post is definite back pedaling if not a direct contradiction of this post:
No I didn't wear them. I don't want to draw a diagram or anything,( ) but it worked out well. Like twice a night from like 5 weeks until about four months. Then we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep. They were up literally every two hours from birth until their first birthday.
Her statement here doesn't really contradict what she's saying though. It actually doesn't really explain much. She was quite vague and could simply have stated that she did not have sex DURING the act of bottle feeding, when this created the paperclip illustration.
I'm not being snarky, but I don't even understand what you're saying here.
I think what you are saying in this post is definite back pedaling if not a direct contradiction of this post:
No I didn't wear them. I don't want to draw a diagram or anything,( ) but it worked out well. Like twice a night from like 5 weeks until about four months. Then we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep. They were up literally every two hours from birth until their first birthday.
Her statement here doesn't really contradict what she's saying though. It actually doesn't really explain much. She was quite vague and could simply have stated that she did not have sex DURING the act of bottle feeding, when this created the paperclip illustration.
I think it is contradictory. Twice a night from like 5 weeks until 4 months. THEN we waited until they'd been fed and went back to sleep.
It implies that from 5 weeks to 4 months it wasn't after they'd been fed and went back to sleep. It implies that happened after 4 months.
This is so damn confusing. Your first post was this:
"Yes. Flame full alert: I've done it feeding them."
That sentence alone implies you were having sex while feeding (whether bottle or nursing). Not that you fed them, put them down, and then went at it until the next one woke up. You can't have it both ways.