Over the weekend H and I saw the most amazing dog. It was a corgi terrier mix. Apparently it's a real mix called a Cojack. H said that if I could find one of those he'd be ok with getting it.
I'm not at all interested in buying a dog from a breeder (just a personal thing), so I need to find one that needs a home.
Apparently these dogs are super hard to find. I'm willing to go anywhere to get it, so distance doesn't really matter. Help me find a Cojack, please!!!
I'm going to punch H in the face. I found one that we both agreed was cute. The temperament of a cojack would totally work for us and H was like "uh... I don't want to be responsible for this or take care of it." I told him that I would do it.
He's not on board any more. What the hell. Seriously. Can I get an annulment over this?
omg! I can't believe he got your hopes up like that! wtf?!
Right?! He had to have known that if he said "that dog is cute, I could get something like that" then I would have gone out to find a dog like that.
I'm seriously so angry and sad right now. We've been arguing over this pretty much since we got married. Before we got married, I swear, he was never this anti-dog. If I would have know that he was this against dogs earlier I don't know if I would have kept dating him.
He keeps telling me that if I want one so bad then to go get one, but I don't feel like it's right to get one unless he's 100% on board, right?
I forgot, is this because of your schedule? Like, traveling etc? During the day on a regular work day you can take it to a doggy daycare.
yeah, mostly because of my travel schedule. I'm thisclose to saying screw it and finding a new job where I don't travel at all.
I know it sounds a little crazy, but maybe you should consider it? IMO it's not a crazy thing to think about if a dog is something you really want. It's like having a kid - people sacrifice all sorts of things to make that happen and I don't see this as any different for you.
Also, does your H like dogs in general? Like if you're at a friend's house, will he play with it? Unless he's scared or hates them, he'd probably warm up to it eventually.
H is fine with small to medium well behaved dogs. We have a friend with a dog that he kind of likes. That dog barley barks, is probably about 20lbs, calm and really well behaved.
All we need is a chill dog and I think it'll be fine.
OMG Get him! He's totally cute! And you deserve to have a dog, for real. Your H will fall in love with him. My H was SO against a dog for years, and we fought over it. Then I dragged him to an adoption event and found one I fell madly in love with. H wasn't on board, but I said, "I'm getting him." Within a week, H was just as in love with him.
Ok, we've come to a compromise. There will be no punching.
H will go meet a cojack locally (basically anywhere where we don't have to get on a plane) and if we click then we can take it home.
However, in the mean time I have to do the following: 1. Find 3 different people that can dog sit while we're on vacation. I have confirmation from 1 and I'm waiting to hear back from the other 2. 2. Lay down chicken wire along the fence, so that the dog doesn't dig 3. Stop harassing him until I find one for us to go meet
Post by georgeharrison on Jul 30, 2012 21:12:03 GMT -5
I would dog sit for sure! I know I don't really know you, but seriously...I LOVE DOGGIES and would do it for you for long periods of time even.
I know this is kind of morbid for this post, but to prove my point of how much I love dogs, a girlfriend of mine sent out a group text that I got as soon as we got off the plane today that they put their sick, old doggy down. I started sobbing in the airport walking to baggage claim. James thought I had found out that a person had died.