I never have had to keep the cost of anything a secret. If anything, DH may feel that way about ME. He thinks I'm cheap.
Since DS turned 5 (he is now 6) H will spend $70-$80 for Nikes for DS, which get worn out and need to be replaced in 5-6 months.
And DS has several pairs: for school, for "training", for b-ball, etc.. H just ordered a new pair for him that was $77. Can you tell that I think this is over the top ? I'm not allowed to buy shoes for DS because H is picky about it.
Hiding thousands of dollars from me would really be damaging.
this is something I will never have to do with DH. He could not give a shit what anything costs and often times if I am waffling on something because of cost I will call him because I know he will find a way to justify it. He can justify buying ANYTHING. I saw this ADORABLE coat for dd1, I loved it. $200. nope, not happening. I was telling DH later, and he's well, all 4 can wear it. and she can get 2 years out of it and on and on. stop! no! this is why I handle our money lol
This is my husband, exactly. We would be broke if he handled the money.