My friend is planning his wife's 40th birthday party. The party is not a surprise, but the surprise part is that he's asking all the guests to do some sort of performance - singing, joke telling, storytelling, etc. So it will essentially be a big old-person talent show. He's setting up a little stage in the backyard and renting a sound system. The idea is to show her that 40 is "just the start of the creative phase of life." He's also hiring babysitters and a food truck.
Ok, in theory, this is so sweet and creative and romantic. But........no. Just no. Please just let me bring your wife a bottle of nice wine and call it good.
Oh boy that's too much for me. Should be optional to participate in that. You can't be the only person who feels the way you do. What does your H think?
Post by creamsiclechica on Oct 21, 2014 14:44:56 GMT -5
I think I'll go ahead and say it:
Get the fuck out of here with this.
I think perhaps the sentiment is sweet, but I'd neither want to participate in showcasing a skill or sit through several hours of other people doing it and pretending I'm interested.
Post by laurensmomma on Oct 21, 2014 15:39:47 GMT -5
Yeah, the host has taken what could have been an incredibly sweet gesture for his wife and turned it into something that the guests could become uncomfortable over and cast a negative view on the event but requiring it. He wants people to look back and remember it as an awesome event, not a time where they were forced to "perform".
I agree with previous posters, aand as a 40 something, I sure as hell do not want to watch my friends embarrass themselves by doing that. Someone needs to have a talk with her husband.
You guys always make me laugh. I'm sure he won't totally force the issue, but I'm sure there will be some peer pressure. He explicitly said not to bring food. However, he did not explicitly forbid a Med Free Birthing Show. I think Honeybee is onto something.
The only good parts of this party are the food truck and the free babysitting. Is there any way to enjoy these parts but skip out on the "entertainment"?
I think it's pretty adorable and I would do something to get into the spirit of things. Probably just tell a joke or a small roast or something. I think that if someone comes to the party and doesn't participate they will be singled out and look like a total ass.
JUST KIDDING! I think if someone didn't participate it would totally go under the radar and no one is probably reading from a script to introduce each guest and their talent.