wtf. I feel like a mom friend is blowing off E

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I'd ask her what's up.

[feistypants]

Maybe her daughter is having anxiety problems after all of the things that have happened and is having issues with being gone from the house for too long? Your friend may just have her hands full with dealing with all of the emotional fallout right now.

[thinkofthesoldiers]

Oct 21, 2014 18:44:23 GMT -5 @stpete said:

They haven't been able to come over the last few times I've invited them. She hasn't invited us over in a while and I just had to ask if she got the invite to E's b day party and she said her dd can't make it because she has a swim meet the next morning. It's a sleep over. I'd like to ask if get daughter could just come for awhile and go home, But I don't know if that's being pushy.

I can't think of why she would be upset or distancing. This is the same women my family/friend/I bought a tv and alarm system when she was broken into. Lately she just has made zero effort at friendship and I don't know what I've done to upset her. Or maybe I'm reading to much into it.

That's weird and pushy. Don't do that.

[sequins]

It looks like she's cutting you out. Maybe she feels embarrassed about taking stuff?

[thinkofthesoldiers]

Oct 21, 2014 18:49:35 GMT -5 @stpete said:

Oct 21, 2014 18:47:19 GMT -5 thinkofthesoldiers said:

That's weird and pushy. Don't do that.

My reasoning was that maybe she thought it would be rude to ask if get daughter could come for the activities/dinner/cake and then sleep at home. But it would be fine if she did.

Yeah I understand that, but she doesn't sound like she is a total stranger. She is already a friend. My friends would assume that it is okay, and given your social nature, I'm guessing your friends would assume it too. Going back to her after she already said it won't work seems just kind of weird/pushy/desperate to me.