Why do they always choose the difficult way to do things? It is nap time so I asked Lincoln, "would you like to walk to your room or do I have to pick you up and carry you?" He said, "carry me and then I cry." And that's exactly what he's doing.
I can relate to this. After being angry and mad more often than not, I finally came to the conclusion that it's really hard for people to change unless they really want to. There's a saying that goes, "if it walk like a duck, quacks like a duck...It's a duck" Meaning when the person shows you who they are, believe them. I'm sorry your mom is so hard to let in.
Thank you for this. We've had a rough relationship since I was a teenager. We go through waves of getting along (mostly that's when I'm doing what she thinks is right) to her being hurtful and questioning my parenting. To a degree, I understand why she is the way she is, but the way she goes about everything is so hurtful. I'm finally in a great place and so are the kids. Eli referred to J as his dad in a story he wrote this week at school, and when I asked him about it, he said he treats him like a dad should and loves him. I've seen the biggest change in him out of all three of the kids. He told me he's never seen me so happy and that it makes him happy. And of course I'm the best mom ever The change in my kids is validation enough for me, but it would be awesome if my mom was included as a positive part of my life. Guess we can't have everything. I'm grateful that I do have my dad. He's an amazing man and am blessed to have one super supportive parent.
I think the hard part is accepting when someone shows you who they are. It's hard to believe someone isn't a nice person or is miserable in general because we want everyone in our lives to be happy and loving. Truly, the hardest part is accepting that she might never change and to treat her accordingly. If she's done the same things to you over and over, you have to get to a point where you're okay with drawing a line in the sand and maybe keeping her at a distance or cutting her out or whatever. Sticking to your decided boundaries is equally hard too.
I don't have a costume for halloween and I really don't deel like buying one...but I kind of want to do something!
I found some cushion fluff, packing foam, and some square foam in the garage...
Last year I made a spider web shirt with a bleach pen. I used a black shirt, drew the web and spider with the bleach pen, let it sit for a couple of hours and then washed it. It's the perfect amount of festive for the Halloween party we're going to.
Why do they always choose the difficult way to do things? It is nap time so I asked Lincoln, "would you like to walk to your room or do I have to pick you up and carry you?" He said, "carry me and then I cry." And that's exactly what he's doing.
This is my life too. I'm sorry but I'm giggling over him saying he's then going to cry.
Why do they always choose the difficult way to do things? It is nap time so I asked Lincoln, "would you like to walk to your room or do I have to pick you up and carry you?" He said, "carry me and then I cry." And that's exactly what he's doing.
This is my life too. I'm sorry but I'm giggling over him saying he's then going to cry.
I laughed too. He always tells me he's going to cry and when I say he doesn't need to, he says "just a little?"
bebeetmoi I am so sorry about your ex h, are there consequences for all these cancelled visits? It cannot be good for his case. Such a jackass disappointing his little girl like that
I find myself extremely jealous of my dog lately. Lazy furball having all his meals brought to him, special treats, blissfully sleeping all the time. Seriously he gets so much sleep and looks so comfy. I have gone off the deep end I fear.
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I forgot how much the stupid "your baby is the size of ____fruit" choices angered me. How was I a peach last week and a lemon this week? A peach is totally bigger than a lemon.
I want to cry. I just tried to put on my rain boots and could only zip them halfway up each calf. Now I'm going to look ridiculous walking home.
I am carrying ten extra pounds of fluff already but have no stomach to show for it. Pregnancy weight gain is really f'ing with my mind and confidence. I hadn't gained an ounce at this point last time. I'm scared I'm going to keep gaining at this rate and just blow up.
I want to cry. I just tried to put on my rain boots and could only zip them halfway up each calf. Now I'm going to look ridiculous walking home.
I am carrying ten extra pounds of fluff already but have no stomach to show for it. Pregnancy weight gain is really f'ing with my mind and confidence. I hadn't gained an ounce at this point last time. I'm scared I'm going to keep gaining at this rate and just blow up.
For Ruby's pregnancy I had gained 20 lbs by 20 weeks and then I gained less than 5 for the second half. You'll be okay! Just do what you're doing and get through it!
I forgot how much the stupid "your baby is the size of ____fruit" choices angered me. How was I a peach last week and a lemon this week? A peach is totally bigger than a lemon.
I had this same discussion with my mom last week. It doesn't make any sense!
I want to cry. I just tried to put on my rain boots and could only zip them halfway up each calf. Now I'm going to look ridiculous walking home.
I am carrying ten extra pounds of fluff already but have no stomach to show for it. Pregnancy weight gain is really f'ing with my mind and confidence. I hadn't gained an ounce at this point last time. I'm scared I'm going to keep gaining at this rate and just blow up.
I gained 10 in the first tri both times. Because my first tri fetuses only enjoy eating carbs and cheese
In the end I gained 30-35 each time.
You won't blow up you will be fine. I bet you look beautiful
Post by musiclover on Oct 22, 2014 17:09:04 GMT -5
We just went and bought Adam's birthday goldfish. Tonight I'm making a tuna casserole for dinner. I am a terrible person. Lol. I bet those two little goldfish are thinking, "what the fuck is going to happen to is?"