Oh, so she's trapping him? Did she somehow collect his sperm against his will and insert it into her uterus? College girls these days are devious!
But seriously, he needs to cut it the fuck out with the "trapping him" language. Grow up and take responsibility for having unprotected sex, bro! (and hopefully it's just a joke.)
He really is a sweet kid, but also tragically dumb it seems. I hope him talking about her trapping him is reactionary and not real
I'm sorry, I know what I said was mean and it's your BIL. I was mostly being TIC, given his thought that Plan B might be a solution. I hope he's taking intro to biology this semester!
Oh, that "trapping" comment would stick in my craw FOREVER. Fuck you, even at 18. Unless she has a magic vagina that removes condoms, no one "trapped" anyone here, jackwagon.
Anyway, ignore this nonsense and enjoy your wedding.
Send your BIL to me. I'll give him a less or two on anatomy, biology, and feminism. Ass.
Well, did he call her? Or just run around panicking?
He ran around panicking. He was in hysterics last night, yelling that she "probably did this on purpose" and that "she's trying to trap me!"
I told him he's just at fault if he has been having sex without a condom and "trusting she'll take care of it." He's known her for two months. He also ran out to get plan B and I told him that at this point plan B is not going to do shit.
LMAO that he thinks she is trying to "trap him" and "doing it on purpose" when he was knowingly having unprotected sex with her.
No snapchat is a short video that is sent to another person's phone and is only a few seconds long.
I thought they were just pictures you can send to the other person and it'll be destroyed within a few seconds.
You can send pictures or video. They're not savable and disappear off the other person's phone after the designated time, but it is possible to screen cap them.
Ok, I need an update on this like right now lol. When will he see her again? If someone snapchatted me that I would be driving to their location.
Ugh. I totally hope he learns his lesson here. Did he say she specifically told him that she was on birth control?
Someone please remind me when the time comes to tell my boys that even if she says she is on the pill that it is not 100% effective, that it is especially not effective if you don't take it at the same time/you take antibiotics/you forget a day which are all things that I would think a teenage girl might be fuzzy on (I was). AND NOT TO MENTION STDs. Argh, protect yourself if you don't want to end up in this predicament. Men!
I thought they were just pictures you can send to the other person and it'll be destroyed within a few seconds.
You can send pictures or video. They're not savable and disappear off the other person's phone after the designated time, but it is possible to screen cap them.
I think snapchat has a public aspect now... At least that is what I have gathered from conversations coworkers were having
Ok, I need an update on this like right now lol. When will he see her again? If someone snapchatted me that I would be driving to their location.
Ugh. I totally hope he learns his lesson here. Did he say she specifically told him that she was on birth control?
Someone please remind me when the time comes to tell my boys that even if she says she is on the pill that it is not 100% effective, that it is especially not effective if you don't take it at the same time/you take antibiotics/you forget a day which are all things that I would think a teenage girl might be fuzzy on (I was). AND NOT TO MENTION STDs. Argh, protect yourself if you don't want to end up in this predicament. Men!
I just found yesterday that he was fooling around with someone, so I don't have a play by play of what's happened since then.
I also want an update from him, and I suggested that both of them go to the dr. to get a test to confirm. But since the wedding's tomorrow I probably won't have an update for you guys for a few days. I'll have limited ML access for the next 48 hrs
I am infuriated by the "entrapment" comments. He knowingly had unprotected sex - merely assuming that she was taking precautions *without actually asking* is so beyond stupid and irresponsible.
I hope they can sit down and talk about this like somewhat capable adults. Maybe if they had talked in the first place, he would have known she was not taking precautions and this whole thing could have been avoided.
That said, I'm holding out hope that it's a royally screwed up prank.
When I gave the sex talk to my 20 year old brother (yes you read that right), I told him the pill does not protect against STDs and you can't trust girls because they have to take it everyday. The girl could miss ONE pill and end up pregnant- I knew that was a bit of a stretch but it worked. He looked at me horrified and said, "I thought a girl could just take one pill that day and be good??"
The Plan B part surprises me the least in this story.
Ok, I need an update on this like right now lol. When will he see her again? If someone snapchatted me that I would be driving to their location.
Ugh. I totally hope he learns his lesson here. Did he say she specifically told him that she was on birth control?
Someone please remind me when the time comes to tell my boys that even if she says she is on the pill that it is not 100% effective, that it is especially not effective if you don't take it at the same time/you take antibiotics/you forget a day which are all things that I would think a teenage girl might be fuzzy on (I was). AND NOT TO MENTION STDs. Argh, protect yourself if you don't want to end up in this predicament. Men!
I told DS this very same thing. I even made sure to use explicit language so there would be no confusion. It doesn't appear to have worked, so I'd advise everyone, when they have that talk with their kids, to make sure to use the kind of language that makes them really uncomfortable, so they never forget it.
Like I said in my post above, that's too much of a life-changer to just leave it to "I figured she had it taken care of." First of all, it's not soley the woman's responsibility, and second of all, how do you know her idea of "taking care of it" doesn't mean douching with Coca-Cola ersumshit like that?
Ok, I need an update on this like right now lol. When will he see her again? If someone snapchatted me that I would be driving to their location.
Ugh. I totally hope he learns his lesson here. Did he say she specifically told him that she was on birth control?
Someone please remind me when the time comes to tell my boys that even if she says she is on the pill that it is not 100% effective, that it is especially not effective if you don't take it at the same time/you take antibiotics/you forget a day which are all things that I would think a teenage girl might be fuzzy on (I was). AND NOT TO MENTION STDs. Argh, protect yourself if you don't want to end up in this predicament. Men!
Preach it. I mean COME ON NOW. None of this is new news. Wrap it up, EVERYtime.