We are doing a simplified dissolution, so one of the terms is both parties have to appear before the judge. It was always the plan, and it's not the getting to FL that is the issue, it is the lack of warning!
STBX lives in Hallendale, so it's in Broward. But I am planning on going up to Orlando for some Universal Studios. I bought a season pass while I lived there, so I might as well use it a little...plus the new part of the Harry Potter world opened and I haven't seen it yet, so it's practically a must.
At least it will be done soon!! Mine should be done in the next couple of week - I'll race you
Post by pantsoffdanceoff on Oct 28, 2014 11:07:37 GMT -5
I'm seriously upset because I found out one of my absolute favorite restaurants near my work closed. Like, I am feeling way more emotion than I should be over a restaurant.
Oh forgot to mention that we file the paperwork in my old county today so if the emergency order goes through xh will be notified within the next few days. I'm glad we've moved already because he doesn't know our address. I'm also glad my family is coming this weekend.
Don't you have to provide notice of new address to XH? I think my court stuff says I have X amount of days to provide info.
Perhaps. I asked my attorney about it and he wasn't sure because I'm not withholding contact from xh and we always have met halfway so it's not really an issue of him HAVING to have my address. I guess if we're backed into a corner by his attorney well disclose but until then I'm not giving it to him voluntarily.
We are doing a simplified dissolution, so one of the terms is both parties have to appear before the judge. It was always the plan, and it's not the getting to FL that is the issue, it is the lack of warning!
STBX lives in Hallendale, so it's in Broward. But I am planning on going up to Orlando for some Universal Studios. I bought a season pass while I lived there, so I might as well use it a little...plus the new part of the Harry Potter world opened and I haven't seen it yet, so it's practically a must.
I'm inviting myself to go to Universal with you. I really want to go to Harry Potter world. When you know the date/s let me know so I can try to swing it.
Would you be able to do a weekday? If I can get the time off, the plan is to get divorced Thursday morning, then fly up to Orlando and go to US on Thursday/Friday...I think. I mean, I could certainly do Saturday as well, but I like to try to limit crowding, lol. Harry Potter is ALL MINE!!!
I'm annoyed, frustrated and sad that I'm not going to see the dude I went out with on Friday again. Our date went great until the end and I really liked him and he was tall too! And then I don't know what happened at the end. It ended abruptly and we had plans to get together later in the weekend that didn't happen. And I wish I could just "next" him in my head and of course I will but for right now I'm sad.
Don't you have to provide notice of new address to XH? I think my court stuff says I have X amount of days to provide info.
Perhaps. I asked my attorney about it and he wasn't sure because I'm not withholding contact from xh and we always have met halfway so it's not really an issue of him HAVING to have my address. I guess if we're backed into a corner by his attorney well disclose but until then I'm not giving it to him voluntarily.
I'm in no way, shape or form, defending XH, but if the situation were reversed and P was with him at his place and you didn't have the address, that would be a problem, no?
ETA: I'd lose my shit if I didn't know where DS was staying, when he was XH.
My Mom saw my XFIL today at the gas station and they chatted for a bit. However I feel about XH, I did love my XILs and miss them terribly. Especially XFIL, he's hilarious and really sweet. Now I'm just a little bummed out.
That sucks about your BF's boss, but it sucks more that your BF was oblivious to the whole thing. It shouldn't have been your responsibility to babysit his boss.
That is what I was thinking. I have always wanted one because....uh...why not? But I think I would feel weird pulling it out for a non-committed sex partner. Why? I don't know. I am weird. Shaddup.
I went to watch BF play soccer last night. It was eerie because it was at the same place that XH used to play at regularly. I've spent many many hours there with XH; it was weird to be watching someone else play. And to be watching teams that were at the lowest skill level. XH played on a team with a couple of semi-pros. I was sideline coaching (in my head, mostly).
But BF's team won 4-2! He made some good saves too! (He's a keeper)
And, OMG how I've missed this, there's a pizza place/bar in the sports complex, so we got my most favorite pizza that I haven't had in over a year. Green pesto sauce with diced tomatoes and Tapatillo. Mmmmmm. I'm about to eat my leftovers for lunch!
Also, I got kinda drunk off 3 beers. WTF.
ETA: OH! And, I got to watch BF in actual EMT mode. A girl in another game injured/possibly broke her ankle and BF went over to help. Is it weird to be turned on by my BF cutting someone's sock off? LMFAO
And another random from me. Having old parents sucks. Just got off the phone with my sister. Apparently, my Dad has been feeling really sick for the past week, everyone was telling him he looked really bad and needed to see a doctor. He finally did and they determined he was sick due to a blockage in his liver. Before fixing it, they did a CT Scan and found that he has a mass in his liver. Since they weren't oncologists, they couldn't diagnose.
Right now, he is having a stent put in place for the blockage, and tomorrow will have to go to another doctor for the mass. I hate this stuff. I try not to worry because it is what it is, and there is nothing I can do about it, but man, it's my Dad...I don't talk to my parents a ton, but I always know that they are there. I don't like to think about the day that that isn't the case.
Maybe?!? Wonder if I can use the groupon AND 50% off?
I also need some recommendations for stuff from there...I should branch out some!
Liberator pillow.
I want one so bad.
5 or so years ago, I bought a Liberator wedge (the smaller pillow in the picture posted). It's still in its packaging in the closet. Yes, DH is a huge prude. At one point it was stuffed under the bed. I guess if you have normal clearance you can fit it in there.
I slept in after a great relaxing evening last night. The guy I'm seeing right now makes me happy beyond measure. He treats me so well. I am pretty smitten with him. I spent so long being treated poorlg by my ex. I didn't know life could be like this.
Isn't it amazing, once you've been forced to step back and evaluate the whole marriage, instead of just the individual moments, and you realize WOW, I really am better off now!
I mean, I knew there were issues in my marriage. But once I was out of there and really started to evaluate the big picture, I realized how truly shitty he was to me. How many things I glossed over/let go/minimized.
I'm so happy for you, HC! You deserve it, for sure!
I'm annoyed, frustrated and sad that I'm not going to see the dude I went out with on Friday again. Our date went great until the end and I really liked him and he was tall too! And then I don't know what happened at the end. It ended abruptly and we had plans to get together later in the weekend that didn't happen. And I wish I could just "next" him in my head and of course I will but for right now I'm sad.
Did you post about what happened? I'm sorry if I missed it.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Perhaps. I asked my attorney about it and he wasn't sure because I'm not withholding contact from xh and we always have met halfway so it's not really an issue of him HAVING to have my address. I guess if we're backed into a corner by his attorney well disclose but until then I'm not giving it to him voluntarily.
I'm in no way, shape or form, defending XH, but if the situation were reversed and P was with him at his place and you didn't have the address, that would be a problem, no?
ETA: I'd lose my shit if I didn't know where DS was staying, when he was XH.
Yes of course that would be a problem. If I'm asked to hand over the address in court I will. But if I'm not asked I will not willfully just volunteer the information to a meth addict with a history of violence. There's a big difference between me not knowing where P is as his primary caregiver and mother vs an addict father. But like I said, if j have to give him that information then i will.
I'm annoyed, frustrated and sad that I'm not going to see the dude I went out with on Friday again. Our date went great until the end and I really liked him and he was tall too! And then I don't know what happened at the end. It ended abruptly and we had plans to get together later in the weekend that didn't happen. And I wish I could just "next" him in my head and of course I will but for right now I'm sad.
Did you post about what happened? I'm sorry if I missed it.
That's pretty much what happened. I don't know what happened. We had a great night and when he was dropping me off it ended abruptly and I have no idea why. I don't know if it was something I said, or did or if he thought I farted or what. Mystery.
Did you post about what happened? I'm sorry if I missed it.
That's pretty much what happened. I don't know what happened. We had a great night and when he was dropping me off it ended abruptly and I have no idea why. I don't know if it was something I said, or did or if he thought I farted or what. Mystery.
Post by Wanderista on Oct 28, 2014 16:01:12 GMT -5
I'm just kind of getting through this week to get to the weekend and relax. There have been some good changes at work. I generally feel optimistic. I like what I do, I just need to unwind a bit when I can.
BF and I are going to spend the weekend together relaxing and I'm really looking forward to it. We're also going out of town together the following weekend and I can't wait for that as well. I'm going to recharge my batteries in a much needed way.