Post by trafficgirl on Oct 30, 2014 21:14:17 GMT -5
The gross dirty dish is now washed.
I picked it up and told H I was going to toss it since he wasn't going to wash it. Which was met with protests. So I said wash it right now or it's in the garbage. So he did.
The growlers are also in the dishwasher.
Hopefully people are less grossed out by the state of my house now.
My main complaint about my h is that he comes home and acts like where the eff is everything? Where is this? How come you don't have that?
Last time it was paper towel and polysporin. "Where's all the paper towel? Why don't you have a roll up here?" (We have like 50 rolls in the basement). Well h, that would be because I don't use paper towel. Its wasteful and I just don't have the same obsession you do.
Omg my H does the same thing. I don't know where the motherfucking paper towel is because YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE USING IT!
Dude. We've talked about this before, right? They have no right, goddamnit. I don't care if you paid for it all, I get to decide what, where and how much.
It drives me in-sane. Every time he comes back it's something. "Why do we have so many dishes? How come the kids need so many pairs of pj's, I can't close the drawer". Huh, that's funny. I never have a problem with their dressers or my dishes. Must be you.
Oh wait. My H does that shit except HE DOESNT TRAVEL. He is just spaced. We also have conversations like the one meganew described. I actually told him last weekend that it would be nice if he lived down here with the rest of us instead of up in the clouds.
Oh wait. My H does that shit except HE DOESNT TRAVEL. He is just spaced. We also have conversations like the one meganew described. I actually told him last weekend that it would be nice if he lived down here with the rest of us instead of up in the clouds.
Travel is no excuse. Your H is compartmentalizing, poorly sometimes, lol. My H has his OWN APARTMENT. he can fuck off with any complaining. His spaciness is just indulgent at this point. @ygmg, I missed the part about the dishes. Lol. Why does my H care how many dishes we have? He's like 'we need to cut this silverware in half'. Whyyyy? WTF.
Lol! Yeah, he's always telling me that we need to get rid of some mugs or plates. I'm like, cool, you wanna chuck stuff? why don't we just head downstairs to your room of doom and start chucking everything you've been saving. Why do we need boxes from something you bought 5 years ago? Or 10 unused rubbermaid tubs? Or 8000 different types of saws?
And yeah, he has his own place out there. He can keeps it however he wants, but stop coming home and fucking shit up!
It drives me in-sane. Every time he comes back it's something. "Why do we have so many dishes? How come the kids need so many pairs of pj's, I can't close the drawer". Huh, that's funny. I never have a problem with their dressers or my dishes. Must be you.
Oh wait. My H does that shit except HE DOESNT TRAVEL. He is just spaced. We also have conversations like the one meganew described. I actually told him last weekend that it would be nice if he lived down here with the rest of us instead of up in the clouds.
MMMHHHMMMM.
The other night I asked H to grab Viv's pjs- she wears these long sleeved onesie-dress type sacks to sleep in because it's easy for me to change her at night. He brings down a button up sleeper. I'm like, "Um, these aren't her pjs." He gets all indignant, "Well, then what does she wear? Huh?"
How about the same thing she's worn to bed for the past 9 weeks?! Open your eyes!!
Post by Mrs.Rad888 on Oct 30, 2014 23:58:33 GMT -5
I'm sure DH has thought some of these thoughts about me, lol. He's pickier about cleaning the house, so I'll admit that I took him for granted and let him do 90% of the cleaning while he worked and I went to school. Problem is that when I finished school, but didn't find work, I still let him do the 90% he was doing. He finally had a CTJ talk, and I took over the majority of cleaning. But now that I'm doing the majority of the cleaning (which I am OK with, since I'm still not working), he's starting to do a lot of the stuff that others are complaining about their H doing. I don't understand why he can't put his dirty dishes in the dishwasher, when he used to complain about me doing the same thing. Maybe it's payback?
Also, it's easy to tell when DH has put clean dishes away, because he stacks stuff in the order he takes it out of the dishwasher, rather than in an order that makes sense.