I'd take a Bentley. Or even a lowly Mercedes. I would not appreciate a Dodge Dart. But that's b/c if I ever divorce and remarry, I'm doing it for money.
When I got engaged the first time I got a ring and a car. Saab convertible. When I broke it off I returned the ring and kept the car. I never should have broken it off!
Post by lostlenore on Oct 31, 2014 14:29:47 GMT -5
When I first got engaged, I remember that it always freaked me out that the ring on my finger was worth more than my car! I loved that DH got me something so nice at the time, but sometimes now I wish I could just trade it in for a fake and use the $ on new kitchen counters or something. Obviously I'm not a very sentimental person!
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Oct 31, 2014 14:39:44 GMT -5
Where do I sign up for an engagement car? I can't drive a stupid diamond around when my van craps out. Whoever this man is, is practical and generous. Gimme.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
I would've much preferred a car over an engagement ring but I have a rock where my heart should be. However if H spent on a car what was spent on my ring, I would've gotten this:
I got a kitten and a garden hose. DH bought a house the week before he asked me to marry him. He bought me a Persian kitten and a hose because I said pets and washing my car were the two things I missed living in an apartment. He gave me a 50% stake in the house when we got married and I eventually got an "engagement" ring a year or so later.
How old is the mother and is the car of recent vintage or an antique? My dad had a spiffy Dodge Dart convertible when I was a kid. Not his car, but one like it.
Post by dragonfly08 on Oct 31, 2014 18:06:52 GMT -5
Not everyone is romantic, not everyone is into bling.
When my aunt got engaged to her first husband, she didn't want a ring. She got an Egyptian Ankh pendant that she wore, instead. It had meaning to them. (and for the purposes of this thread, I feel like I should say that as far as the "first husband" part goes, the marriage ended b/c he later died of cancer, not b/c he wasn't romantic enough to propose with a diamond)
Post by crazycakes on Oct 31, 2014 19:43:33 GMT -5
Yeah, a Dodge Dart is not romantic.
But my BFF's dad gave an engagement pool, so I get that not everyone is into jewelry. He said, "Either I get you a ring now or when we're married and get the house I put in a pool right away." And she picked the pool. And they still live in that house and have the pool. So I get the sentiment.