Time to ask your unanswered questions. If you are tagged, answer the question and then ask your own. Of course, feel free to jump in with questions even if you haven't been tagged.
Time to ask your unanswered questions. If you are tagged, answer the question and then ask your own. Of course, feel free to jump in with questions even if you haven't been tagged.
Post by cuddlyevil on Nov 21, 2014 10:05:34 GMT -5
pinkplasticdoll, I already did. We work together and I'm typically not a "dip your pen in the company ink" kind of person. So maybe it's more of a hang up than a complication? Regardless, things have been kind of a one way street lately so I doubt much will happen on that score--and I'm okay with that.
Post by cuddlyevil on Nov 21, 2014 10:12:43 GMT -5
tiramisu, with the exception of his birthday message, most communication has been going in one direction and nothing's really been coming back.(pinkplasticdoll, we're in the same department)
Last Friday wedding guy told me, via text, that he doesn't have time to date anyone right now and that he thought he was in a place to date but he's not. His friend (my friend's H) is pissed that he broke up with me via text. I realize it likely wouldn't have worked out long-term, but I liked him and our chemistry was great, so it kinda sucks. I'm already less sad, which is one of the benefits of being sick all week, I think.
Last Friday wedding guy told me, via text, that he doesn't have time to date anyone right now and that he thought he was in a place to date but he's not. His friend (my friend's H) is pissed that he broke up with me via text. I realize it likely wouldn't have worked out long-term, but I liked him and our chemistry was great, so it kinda sucks. I'm already less sad, which is one of the benefits of being sick all week, I think.
I still want to punch him tiramisu. I realize I will have to stand in line, I'm okay with waiting for my chance.
Muddled, I posted on FM at The Place That Shall Not Be Named about some family TIP. From there, I lurked on the other boards and found TIP. I loved the ladies there and ended up staying. I also post on ML when it is painfully slow over here.
Last Friday wedding guy told me, via text, that he doesn't have time to date anyone right now and that he thought he was in a place to date but he's not. His friend (my friend's H) is pissed that he broke up with me via text. I realize it likely wouldn't have worked out long-term, but I liked him and our chemistry was great, so it kinda sucks. I'm already less sad, which is one of the benefits of being sick all week, I think.
Fucker. I'm glad you are no longer seeing someone with insecurity issues.
pinkplasticdoll, it was action packed. Except for the 4 hours spent drinking Jack and gingers. I actually think I have more friends in atl than I do here. :/
Last Friday wedding guy told me, via text, that he doesn't have time to date anyone right now and that he thought he was in a place to date but he's not. His friend (my friend's H) is pissed that he broke up with me via text. I realize it likely wouldn't have worked out long-term, but I liked him and our chemistry was great, so it kinda sucks. I'm already less sad, which is one of the benefits of being sick all week, I think.
Fucker. I'm glad you are no longer seeing someone with insecurity issues.
pinkplasticdoll, it was action packed. Except for the 4 hours spent drinking Jack and gingers. I actually think I have more friends in atl than I do here. :/
Yes. I'm struggling with this because it's very difficult to do it while separated, so it is just a lot easier if I wait until the D is final. That's another 9 months away. I am having a hard time with this because it's painful to write my name and to deal with the people at work who know both of us and to meet new people and introduce myself as DL marriedlastname. My lawyer said that some women revert back to their maiden names during the separation process for social media and such, but don't legally change it until the divorce. Can you tell how much turmoil I am in because of this?
doglove do you think that moving from your current location would help you heal?
I really don't know and am limited to the lease I signed and job I have right now. I think a lot of times when I have been in situations that have been painful, I have made big moves to "run away" and I want to make sure I don't do that this time. I love Raleigh and have a pretty good support network here, but maybe in the next year or so I will look at a change of scenery for myself.
Post by starrieskies on Nov 21, 2014 11:22:43 GMT -5
cuddlyevil yes. I did ask him. He declined because he has to work all weekend. He owns his own company. But we continued texting the rest of the day, so I'm pretty sure he's still interested.
dixienormous how are you doing? Has the nausea subsided?
Yes. I'm struggling with this because it's very difficult to do it while separated, so it is just a lot easier if I wait until the D is final. That's another 9 months away. I am having a hard time with this because it's painful to write my name and to deal with the people at work who know both of us and to meet new people and introduce myself as DL marriedlastname. My lawyer said that some women revert back to their maiden names during the separation process for social media and such, but don't legally change it until the divorce. Can you tell how much turmoil I am in because of this?
technically she's fine physically but the mental side is just bad. Surgery was 3 months ago and she's atill in rehab. Not eating or exercising enough. Can't write more now. On phone
I'm finally starting to feel human again. I don't have full energy but much more than I did. Nausea is finally (mostly) gone unless I don't eat enough or get too hungry. The mental stuff is harder to get over. High anxiety from just about everyone. My doc is wonderful and really has been helpful. We have the big scan on 12/9. We're not finding out what we're having though. We're going to be surprised like we were with PF. Hopefully this time, they'll tell me as soon as I deliver. I had to ask when PF was born.
I was sad to miss you too Muddled. I really wanted to meet that cute doggie of yours. Can we have the same agreement this weekend as we had last in regards to our football teams, please?
doglove I'm also team "do what is right for you" in regards to your name. I changed mine socially and at work as soon as we separated and then just did the legal stuff after the D was final.
Can we please get spindle92 back in here? I don't care if she's sick, she can still type.
SwimDeep I dont know if you answered this but why in your post did you ask your SS not to mention your posts on the board?
I find it really odd because none of my SS gifts have never come with a card attached saying "oh ya about the problem you posted on the boards here is an xyz solution"
I've been thinking about this...I realize it was a strange thing for me to say because I don't think any of y'all are the type of person to do something like that. I guess I was thinking about what you know about me. Based on what I've posted here, you know I don't have the greatest relationship. I'm being paranoid
I also realize that I'm used to that sort of (passive aggressive?) treatment from my family. If I was to talk to any of them about what's happening between H and me, I would get gifts like "The 5 Love Languages" and what not. I'm still learning that not everyone treats people that way.
And I really don't want to become this board's "bliss" or "evee". This is the closest I've ever come to having a group of friends, and I'm incredibly grateful for it. This board, and this incredible group, is the reason I'm starting to change my life and take care of myself