Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Nov 26, 2014 8:38:09 GMT -5
My car is still fucked up! Got it back after being in the shop for almost 2 weeks, wouldn't start this morning. That's annoying.
I have to meet XH's new girlfriend tonight before they take the kiddo for Thanksgiving. Should be awkward. I just want to get through the day and go home and cuddle and sleep.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by pantsoffdanceoff on Nov 26, 2014 9:39:47 GMT -5
I'm on vacation for 2.5 weeks starting whenever they close the office today! I've been working like a crazy person trying to get everything done, and I have, so now I'm kind of bored. Time to dust my desk!
Post by riverpestie on Nov 26, 2014 10:01:24 GMT -5
My feelings are a tad hurt. FI and I have this friend who recently announced that she was PG to a ton of friends in a group text, I was excluded from this text. FI just received a group text from her last night that she and her husband just closed on their house, I was excluded from this text as well.
HOWEVER, I was certainly not excluded from a group text message that was asking people to come and help paint their current house so they could rent it out... Guess who was the only one that showed up that day. I was the ONLY one that showed up and I was on their damn roof for 4 hours, painting, while it was sprinkling, in 40 degree weather. I was also not excluded from a text asking for someone to dog sit for them while they're gone for the holidays. Guess who was the only one that stepped up to the plate for that one, too. ME!
Maybe I am overreacting, but I honestly am starting to feel a bit hurt. FI thinks that she is assuming that he is going to tell me, which is true, but why include me on texts asking me for favors all the time and exclude me from the good news texts?! Especially, when I was on their roof painting, talking about how much I hope they're able to get the house of their dreams.
My feelings are a tad hurt. FI and I have this friend who recently announced that she was PG to a ton of friends in a group text, I was excluded from this text. FI just received a group text from her last night that she and her husband just closed on their house, I was excluded from this text as well.
HOWEVER, I was certainly not excluded from a group text message that was asking people to come and help paint their current house so they could rent it out... Guess who was the only one that showed up that day. I was the ONLY one that showed up and I was on their damn roof for 4 hours, painting, while it was sprinkling, in 40 degree weather. I was also not excluded from a text asking for someone to dog sit for them while they're gone for the holidays. Guess who was the only one that stepped up to the plate for that one, too. ME!
Maybe I am overreacting, but I honestly am starting to feel a bit hurt. FI thinks that she is assuming that he is going to tell me, which is true, but why include me on texts asking me for favors all the time and exclude me from the good news texts?! Especially, when I was on their roof painting, talking about how much I hope they're able to get the house of their dreams.
I woke up this morning and my dog peed all over my bed. I'm kind of worries actually. He's never done this before but he is old so I don't know what to think. I'm going in late to work so I can monitor him. I leave for Vegas tomorrow!!! So excited
I woke up this morning and my dog peed all over my bed. I'm kind of worries actually. He's never done this before but he is old so I don't know what to think. I'm going in late to work so I can monitor him. I leave for Vegas tomorrow!!! So excited
riverpestie - are you good friends with this person? I am in the camp that she can't fix what she doesn't realize is happening. Maybe it's an honest oversight, and in that case, she will feel terrible but correct her actions. If it isn't just an oversight, you can know where you rate and stop helping someone who values you so little. I think hurt feelings are justified.
Our office also closes at noon. I wore not great shopping shoes so I won't be tempted to go shopping after I leave, lol. Knowing that I leave in 2.5 hours is not motivating me to work...I feel like it isn't enough time to do anything, so what's the point of starting!
Post by Wanderista on Nov 26, 2014 12:30:28 GMT -5
I would be irritated too, riverpestie. Also, if it were to keep happening, it would definitely make me a bit less enthusiastic to volunteer but you might be nicer than me hehe.
Post by Wanderista on Nov 26, 2014 12:39:14 GMT -5
This has actually been a fairly busy day for me so far as I needed to multitask in the AM to get something done. Now, I have finished that and I am just working from home on fairly easy stuff. It is now a relaxed day though with kind of crappy weather, at least the snow isn't sticking.
riverpestie - are you good friends with this person? I am in the camp that she can't fix what she doesn't realize is happening. Maybe it's an honest oversight, and in that case, she will feel terrible but correct her actions. If it isn't just an oversight, you can know where you rate and stop helping someone who values you so little. I think hurt feelings are justified.
Our office also closes at noon. I wore not great shopping shoes so I won't be tempted to go shopping after I leave, lol. Knowing that I leave in 2.5 hours is not motivating me to work...I feel like it isn't enough time to do anything, so what's the point of starting!
Yes, we're good friends, I think that's why I am a little hurt about it. She came wedding dress shopping with me, and she planned on doing my hair and make-up for the wedding in Italy. Now that she will have an infant, she won't be coming but I definitely consider her one of my best girlfriends here.
It's probably just an oversight, I'll casually mention it to her next time I see her. Thanks!
There are only a few people around today. The VP has her calendar blocked off starting at 3, so I'm REALLY hoping she'll tell everyone to go home then. She can be kind of a snatch about letting us leave before a holiday. I am leaving at lunch to get a chiro massage though, lol.
riverpestie, I would be hurt too. WTF. I'd definitely stop doing favors for them.
UGH, speaking of car issues. I need an oil change, but lately my clutch has been sticking, especially when it's cold. Like, I push it in to shift, and it stays pushed down. Clutch spring, maybe? It's also been really hard to change gears when it's cold. I don't know what the hell is going on. I just hope it's not an expensive fix.
riverpestie - are you good friends with this person? I am in the camp that she can't fix what she doesn't realize is happening. Maybe it's an honest oversight, and in that case, she will feel terrible but correct her actions. If it isn't just an oversight, you can know where you rate and stop helping someone who values you so little. I think hurt feelings are justified.
Our office also closes at noon. I wore not great shopping shoes so I won't be tempted to go shopping after I leave, lol. Knowing that I leave in 2.5 hours is not motivating me to work...I feel like it isn't enough time to do anything, so what's the point of starting!
Yes, we're good friends, I think that's why I am a little hurt about it. She came wedding dress shopping with me, and she planned on doing my hair and make-up for the wedding in Italy. Now that she will have an infant, she won't be coming but I definitely consider her one of my best girlfriends here.
It's probably just an oversight, I'll casually mention it to her next time I see her. Thanks!
I agree with mentioning it. I had this the other day. A friend had issues with a vet that she was posting on FB. There were a few posts that I wasn't able to see that Brother could. He showed them to me, and I messaged her on FB essentially saying "Hey, that sucks what is happening. Brother showed me the post since I wasn't able to see it for some reason". She doesn't know why I can't see it either, so sometimes its just an oversight. Hope it all works out
Post by starburst604 on Nov 26, 2014 14:31:59 GMT -5
We're supposed to be closing at 3:30 today but the doctor working is running way behind already so I don't see that happening. Ho hum. I'm so done working right now that it's not even funny.
Post by redredwine on Nov 26, 2014 16:28:18 GMT -5
OMG. we got the house. Closer than we wanted in sales price (but still under what they were asking by a few K) but they are paying all closing costs which we needed. It's pricier than we wanted initially, but WHAT we want and we'll gain equity, I'm sure (we're planning to be there long term)
I should be excited, but I think I want to puke. It's time to crack down the budget (we know we can make it work, but OMG IT"S SCARYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY)
I'm pacifying myself with a marathon of the Gilmore Girls, wine before 2pm and starting to prep for Tday since I'm hosting.
I woke up this morning and my dog peed all over my bed. I'm kind of worries actually. He's never done this before but he is old so I don't know what to think. I'm going in late to work so I can monitor him. I leave for Vegas tomorrow!!! So excited
On no!!! Poor puppy! Could it be stress? That happened with Callie when Buddha moved in. It made us worry it was an illness, but turned out it was stress!
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Nov 26, 2014 17:32:18 GMT -5
I totally misjudged timing and traffic tonight and now I'm just sitting in a parking lot with my son waiting to meet XH and his new girlfriend. I have no idea why I'm so nervous about this but the longer I wait the more anxious I get.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Pup seems okay. He might be stressed. I've been all over as far as schedules go. He seems fine otherwise so fingers crossed. I'm making him a vet appointment for Monday.