Post by The Foozzler on Nov 26, 2014 15:24:36 GMT -5
I am going to judge the hell out of SIL like I do every day. I'm not sure exactly what the judging will be for tomorrow but I'm sure it will be something good.
Post by formerlyllizzyb on Nov 26, 2014 16:07:04 GMT -5
Myself, for driving into town one hour before the meal and not bringing anything. My kid, for refusing to touch the food. My bro and SIL, for brining their dogs over when we board ours. My grandparents, for whatever judgy or racist remarks they make re: Ferguson. (They're lovely people but the epitome of old conservative Texans.)
Post by thedahliharpa on Nov 26, 2014 16:14:25 GMT -5
The "she can't just eat a little of it" comments at my Dad's. How long after the stated dinner time we will actually eat at my mom's. DH for thinking he can somehow sneak in a nap.
I will judge my SIL and every strange inappropriate comment that comes out of her mouth.
You know that filter/voice in your head that says "hmm, you shouldn't say that". She doesn't have one of those filters. The last time I saw them she told me how she was so horrified that my niece is O-neg blood type (same as me), and I must be terrified at being pregnant with my 2nd child because of all of the risks to me and my unborn child even with the rhogam shot. Then she asked me how much weight I'd gained and was I sure I wanted another piece of pizza.
Post by unclejesse on Nov 26, 2014 21:05:39 GMT -5
I will be judging the food, MH's uncle feeding his face and smacking his food, MH's cousin talking about her failed relationships, Great Grandma will be trying to feed A even though he has a plate of food in front of him. I fully expect people to judge me as I have several glasses of wine. #dontcare
Well I don't think they are coming but normally I judge sil for not having teenage nephew sit at the table with the family to eat and waiting on him hand and foot.
I'm currently judging the lack of cleaning around here. My fil's house is really dirty. Like, walk on the floor with bare feet and they end up grey by the end of the day.
I'll also be judging the amount of food everyone eats and then gets seconds an hour later. I'm so shocked at the amount of food dh's family can put away and still be skinny!
I'll also be judging smil. She keeps telling me the same thing over and over again. It's like 50 First Dates or something. I can't decide if she's a closet drinker or something is wrong with her.
Apparently, we're being judged too. Fil and Smil asked me in separate incidents why dh wasn't sleeping in the room with me and A. Well, we can't sleep comfortably in a double bed when we're used to a king at home. Dh sleeps with a cpap and gets up to pee/ get water all night long. I don't want to risk him waking A up and in turn waking me up! No no. Our marriage is fine. We're still in love. I just want to starfish the (small) bed and sleep without worrying that he'll wake her.
Post by formerlyllizzyb on Nov 26, 2014 23:22:09 GMT -5
alicia45, we sleep in three separate bedrooms at my parents' house! They only have full beds in each bedroom. We each take a bed h and I can hardly sleep together when I'm not pregnant, so we definitely can't do it in a full while I'm pregnant. We have a king at home. He says I snore horribly while pg. Plus I'm up all night long. And G is such a light sleeper we leave him alone in his own room.
I will judge my SIL and every strange inappropriate comment that comes out of her mouth.
You know that filter/voice in your head that says "hmm, you shouldn't say that". She doesn't have one of those filters. The last time I saw them she told me how she was so horrified that my niece is O-neg blood type (same as me), and I must be terrified at being pregnant with my 2nd child because of all of the risks to me and my unborn child even with the rhogam shot. Then she asked me how much weight I'd gained and was I sure I wanted another piece of pizza.
Wait, what is wrong with O- blood?
The way I understand it (one of the more medically savy ladies may be able to explain more clearly): If you are o- and have a baby that is RH pos (the father has a pos type) and your blood mixes with theirs, you can develop antigens that would then attack any future rh pos cells including the fetal cells of subsequent babies. It leads to a pretty serious complications for the baby. The rhogam shot prevents the maternal sensitivity/development of the antigens. It's been out since the 70s, so it's nothing new and is standard procedure to be tested during pregnancy and again at delivery.
Post by onehitwonder on Nov 27, 2014 6:02:25 GMT -5
Sil for her inability to count to 14, forgetting to include W in the count, trying to squeeze said 14 at a round table at 11 a.m. when she knows Mil probably won't show up til noon. Me for putting a sick toddler in this situation because I want to see him in his new outfit Or I may just need to play the sick card, stay home and not judge anyone. We are having other SIL over for dinner & I'm looking forward to that.
The way I understand it (one of the more medically savy ladies may be able to explain more clearly): If you are o- and have a baby that is RH pos (the father has a pos type) and your blood mixes with theirs, you can develop antigens that would then attack any future rh pos cells including the fetal cells of subsequent babies. It leads to a pretty serious complications for the baby. The rhogam shot prevents the maternal sensitivity/development of the antigens. It's been out since the 70s, so it's nothing new and is standard procedure to be tested during pregnancy and again at delivery.
Oh, that's the case for all negative blood types. I thought you were saying there was something bad about O- specifically.