I am so sorry. Have you checked out Al Anon? If not, try and see where the local meeting is in your area. They are for the family and friends of addicts who provide a great source of information and support. (((Hugs))))
"Why would you ruin perfectly good peanuts by adding candy corn? That's like saying hey, I have these awesome nachos, guess I better add some dryer lint." - Nonny
I'm so sorry. You don't need to make any hasty decisions. Let him sleep it off in the drunk tank and wake up in jail. He made his choice. Let there be natural consequences.
I will agree with this. I am so very sorry. ((hugs))