It's after 8 and I'm still lying in bed. DS is magically sleeping in today; normally I'd go to a 9:30 class at the gym but I think we might just stay home and be lazy today. I made it to the gym on Monday and yesterday AND I've been sick, so that's OK, right? RIGHT???
It's after 8 and I'm still lying in bed. DS is magically sleeping in today; normally I'd go to a 9:30 class at the gym but I think we might just stay home and be lazy today. I made it to the gym on Monday and yesterday AND I've been sick, so that's OK, right? RIGHT???
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
Post by lindsay9911 on Dec 19, 2014 9:57:56 GMT -5
I'm feeling grinchy bc my MIL and her brother are coming to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with us. I was really excited for a laid back Christmas morning alone with our little family and now there are going to be people all up in our business and tagging along to our Christmas with my parents on Christmas Eve. And honestly at 37 weeks pregnant, I have zero desire to be a host. I feel like a total brat for even admitting I feel like this.
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
Um yes I would be pissed but I'm super hormonal at the moment so my emotions aren't always rational! Ha! But really who starts bad mouthing a coworkers wife to that coworker in the first place? Not cool.
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
Wait, his coworkers told him you were being a bitch (because you were installing a carseat?), he agreed with them, then he TOLD you they called you a bitch and he agreed?
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
He has 2 arms right? He could have grabbed the shit while you secured the car seat. But you're a bitch because you didn't do it all? Yep. He can sleep on the couch. Forever.
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
I'm a pretty laid back easygoing person and it takes a lot to piss me off...but I think your dhs coworkers and your dh are being assholes. I would be fuming.
Also, I am giving zero fucks over DH today. We got in a fight yesterday because he told me a couple people at work said shit about me and he agreed. Um, no. Not cool.
Backstory - last Saturday we went on a giant rented bus with some of his coworkers to Arlington. I got on with the carseat *immediately* when the bus pulled up cuz I knew it would take me a few minutes to get it in. Well instead of just hanging out like they were, everybody else got on with me too and were all just sitting there. Meanwhile, DH was taking a shit, so I'm trying to wrangle DS and install his carseat (in the dark) AND deal with, 'woah, we used to just sit in the trunk', and 'ha, just buckle him in!'. H comes out and is annoyed that I didn't grab our bag or coffees or stroller from our truck yet. Um, sorry dude. I know I was being a bit of a bitch but when someone says that, don't agree. A 'well, that carseat is a PITA to install', or, 'well, she hadn't had coffee yet', would have been fine. But to just agree pissed me off.
I mean, that's what normal people do, right? Or am I over reacting? Gr.
Wait, his coworkers told him you were being a bitch (because you were installing a carseat?), he agreed with them, then he TOLD you they called you a bitch and he agreed?
Um, he's an asshole.
Right? His coworker said I was being bitchy or something when I was installing it, which I was snappy, not gonna lie, but I had 8 people sitting and staring at me and asking how long it was going to take, it was before sunrise, so DARK, DS was being a 2 year old, and H was in his office pooping.
I mean, ok, if someone says shit, 1. don't agree, and 2. don't fucking tell me. I called him an asshole and I don't even feel bad. Like, don't care. At all. I hope he has a shitty day.
I'm feeling grinchy bc my MIL and her brother are coming to spend Christmas Eve and Christmas Day with us. I was really excited for a laid back Christmas morning alone with our little family and now there are going to be people all up in our business and tagging along to our Christmas with my parents on Christmas Eve. And honestly at 37 weeks pregnant, I have zero desire to be a host. I feel like a total brat for even admitting I feel like this.
Erm, I was thinking it sounded annoying even before I got to the end where you said you are 37 weeks. No way. Nope. The last thing I would want over the holidays is guests, ESPECIALLY when I'm sweaty, farty, cranky, huge, and about to give birth. I don't think you should feel like a brat
Wait, his coworkers told him you were being a bitch (because you were installing a carseat?), he agreed with them, then he TOLD you they called you a bitch and he agreed?
Um, he's an asshole.
Right? His coworker said I was being bitchy or something when I was installing it, which I was snappy, not gonna lie, but I had 8 people sitting and staring at me and asking how long it was going to take, it was before sunrise, so DARK, DS was being a 2 year old, and H was in his office pooping.
I mean, ok, if someone says shit, 1. don't agree, and 2. don't fucking tell me. I called him an asshole and I don't even feel bad. Like, don't care. At all. I hope he has a shitty day.
Why would he tell you this? Even if you were being super bitchy and he did agree why would he ever tell you this??
Also, I like would have to him to fuck off and that he should have taken his shit at home right there on the bus in front of everyone, so let it know it could have been way worse.
In the theme of husbands, DH and I got into a huge fight yesterday while Christmas shopping. He was being a jerk, but I got mad and acted like a child and left the mall to go sit in the car. We eventually just left and went home. Where we fought even more. It was so stupid. Thi NH s are fine now but we still have to finish Christmas shopping.
I also had a full blown panic attack while in the Wal Mart parking lot so yesterday was a terrible day.
Post by chatterbox on Dec 19, 2014 11:10:38 GMT -5
Not a juicy one. DD is 6 months old today. I hit the page limit in her "first year" shutterfly book 3 weeks ago (I think it's like 115 pages and $200 before any discounts). I have a problem.
Post by amynumbers on Dec 19, 2014 11:11:40 GMT -5
I just told DH to fuck off because he shrunk two of my sweaters. This has been a relationship long battle for us -- I have repeatedly requested he just not touch my laundry. It was two in one load so I KNOW it was just that he missed it -- he just didn't pay attention and three everything in the dryer.
I should let it go but I am not because we are headed to the inlaws this weekend and I am already annoyed.
Not a juicy one. DD is 6 months old today. I hit the page limit in her "first year" shutterfly book 3 weeks ago (I think it's like 115 pages and $200 before any discounts). I have a problem.
I had 4 full books last year. Each 3 months took up all the pages,
I'm doing better--this year will only be 3 books! Haha!
I just told DH to fuck off because he shrunk two of my sweaters. This has been a relationship long battle for us -- I have repeatedly requested he just not touch my laundry. It was two in one load so I KNOW it was just that he missed it -- he just didn't pay attention and three everything in the dryer.
I should let it go but I am not because we are headed to the inlaws this weekend and I am already annoyed.
Oh this is a major battle for us too! I try to be grateful that he is doing laundry but I want to cut when my clothes get shrunk!
I judge people who have pictures of their kids screaming in terror on santa's lap.
But what if that's the only pic the photographer took? Like what are you supposed to do?
Kids trump photo op every time for me.
DD stood at santa's feet and smiled this year and people ask why I didn't make her sit on his lap. Cause making your daughter sit on a man's lap when she doesn't want to is bad.
DH got asked to work a special event at work next month. The shift is 3am-noon Fri, Sat, Sun. So he comes home last night and says he booked a hotel room so that he can get a good nights sleep and be closer to work since he'll have to get up so early. I am irrationally angry. I want 3 nights to sleep solid sleep alone. Eta: and to top it off, Fri/sat are his days off