I like the Dentist. The one who stabbed me with a dart last year. It goes into my "I need to know you for 8 months before trusting you" thing. We have tentative plans for me to go to la mp in Jan or meet halfway. As long as his moms scans are clear (she had cancer) he's moving back here this summer. We had an amazing week together
This may, or may not, be flameful, but the next person to tell me I am making the wrong decision by having surgery is going to get punched in the face or an earful! I'm tired. I'm nervous. I am stressed out. The last thing I want to hear from anyone is, " you know one wrong move and you could be paralyzed for the rest of your life?" No shit, Sherlock! You don't think this has consumed my life enough; so you feel you need to tell me this. This includes my brother's MiL. WTF fo' reals! I'm done! If I wanted your opinion, I would have rattled your cage!
Not flameful at all -- they should be punched in the face.
It is a big decision, one you didn't take lightly and it is not for them to comment or make it harder for you. I'm sorry you have to deal with those kind of people.
Thank you! I actually said something to my brother's MiL today (my SiL and I are super close). I kindly asked her not to talk about it with me because it is stressing me out. She apologized. What I really wanted to say was, " oh SiL didn't tell me you became a neurosurgeon overnight! Congrats!"
It is. It bums me out a lot. I feel like I should go on vacation so I can 'meet' someone but not worry about seeing them again so any awkwardness wouldn't follow me.
It is. It bums me out a lot. I feel like I should go on vacation so I can 'meet' someone but not worry about seeing them again so any awkwardness wouldn't follow me.
This is my plan when I go on vacation. I honestly cannot tell you the last time I had the sex, but I can tell you it was with my EXH and we've been apart for over 2 years now.
It is. It bums me out a lot. I feel like I should go on vacation so I can 'meet' someone but not worry about seeing them again so any awkwardness wouldn't follow me.
This is my plan when I go on vacation. I honestly cannot tell you the last time I had the sex, but I can tell you it was with my EXH and we've been apart for over 2 years now.
Let me tell you how well the vacation sex search can go, lol. Four months later and still fucking strong
I'm irrationally pissed. Since I finally got my last name changed at work, I've had a few people ask about it. I inform them I'm divorced, and without fail- every one of them has asked if I have kids, then says "oh that's great then!" after I inform I don't. That shit cuts pretty deep, since 1. I wanted kids badly almost the entire time I was married and still do now 2. It's not like I have no residual fucked up issues from XH just because we didn't have kids.
Yes, I do realize that my situation went more smoothly because of our childless status but I still mourn for the kids I didn't have.
This is when I like to be awkward and make sure they realize how inappropriate their words are, by saying, "Yeah! Thank God for infertility, right?!"
Ahhh....got my sexing in last night. And this morning. Thank you baby Jesus. There's probably something really wrong about saying thank you baby Jesus for sex, but whatevs.
This morning after breakfast TL said it was time for church. So, I'm team sweet baby Jesus.
You dicks just planted that "take me to church " song in my head!
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."