I'm so furious at xh. I tried to FaceTime with P and there was no response. A few hours later I texted him and asked what was going on. He said P isn't with him, he's with xhs sister. Xh is five hours away in Sacramento. Wtf??? So he was fighting to have his time with him and now he's not even with him. Then I called Xsil and she isn't answering or texting back. I just want to know that P is ok.
I get this. My XH fought so hard for more visitation and half the time he drops them off with one of his parents so he doesn't have to get up early to drop them off at daycare or his parents. On one hand I'm like, okay better them than him. But also, why can't they just stay home if he doesn't want to actually spend the time with them anyway??
He finally called and said he was headed back in a few hours. I told him j just wished he would have told me he was not going to be around P so I would know I couldn't FaceTime. I also brought up how he wanted more time but why wouldn't he take P. Sounds like he had a bday party with his gf and they partied hard. So I am glad P isn't around that. But it's just one more thing to document.
He completely didn't understand my point at all but I guess that's to be expected.
I know it's hard, but you have to let some things go. You can't control what your ex is going to do with P and you're going to make yourself crazy trying to know everything.
I don't think it's really that weird to want to know what someone's name is and see a picture of them before going out. If I'm at the point of giving someone my number then presumably I'm ok with them knowing my name and seeing a photo of me. That and I would want a name to put in my phone. OP goes by a nickname anyway so it's not like she would be giving out her government name anyway
Eharmony has first names on profiles. I'm assuming he wanted last name?
I won't go out if I haven't seen a photo of someone, but I understand not giving last names away just yet.
Ah yes that makes sense. Thanks, I agree with what you said then
Eharmony has first names on profiles. I'm assuming he wanted last name?
I won't go out if I haven't seen a photo of someone, but I understand not giving last names away just yet.
Ah yes that makes sense. Thanks, I agree with what you said then
I had no issues with sending a pic. I sent the same one on my eharmony profile. But I just wanted to wait to actually meet the guy before I gave him my last name. The fact that he kept giving me grief about it is what turned me off and made me so uncomfortable.
I just checked my order status for the sheets I bought online. $100 sheets I got for $41.00, yeah well apparently they are on backorder until March. WTF!
Post by lyssbobiss, Command, B613 on Dec 20, 2014 19:42:37 GMT -5
Hello! Just got home from my niece's birthday party. She's such a doll. Love her. We are playing some Mario for a bit and then heading to dinner with BF's dad and brother.
Last night when I dropped my son off with his dad, something about XH's behavior was off. He said he had been sick all week but I just had suspicions. It's weird that I know he's been clean for 4 years and I still worry about him doing drugs. I asked him to text me when he got home so I would know they were both okay. I'm glad that it didn't turn into a thing because I was worried XH would be really annoyed with me. I had to trust my gut though.
Celebrating Christmas with my mom's family tomorrow. I'm pretty excited.
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."
Post by Emerald1486 on Dec 20, 2014 19:51:46 GMT -5
DS and I went over to a friends house to make and decorate cookies. It was such a mess (which she was expecting). He decided EVERY cookie need sprinkles. More than once she went out to her dad and thanked him for being so patient with them growing up. I had to laugh when she did. She is definitely not used to being around a toddler for several hours. But I got some fun pics and he had fun