Fuck him with a blunt chainsaw. He is not worth a second fucking thought. You are amazing and losing 40 pounds is a HUGE accomplishment. I'd create a fake Twitter account and blast his ass away.
Post by catscatscats on Dec 22, 2014 16:11:16 GMT -5
Please hear this: there is something seriously wrong with anyone who would say something like this. Like, not able to function in day to day life wrong.
Try not to waste any more time thinking about this person. Stay as far away as possible.
I can guarantee you that most guys are not like him.
Post by paddywagon on Dec 22, 2014 16:11:36 GMT -5
Please don't let some insignificant piece of shit like him make you hurt. He's a waste of space on this planet and he'll get his because Karma is a total bitch. I hope his dick rots and falls off...stupid piece of shit.
Post by snipsnsnails on Dec 22, 2014 16:12:23 GMT -5
Oh, and I realize I still have a bit of the crazy girlfriend in me (because I was totally *that* crazy girlfriend and ex-girlfriend once upon a time), b/c as soon as I read this, I thought, I totally would've tried to claw his eyes out, knee him in the crotch and then go slash his tires. Instagramming the whole thing with a #revenge hashtag! I'm klassy like that when it comes to dirtbags like him.
Holy shit. He called your relationship a 7 month experiment? That actually knocked the wind out of me when I read it.
How do sociopaths like that walk among us actual humans without routinely getting their teeth knocked out?
They charm people at first and then they do really really shitty things to people; burn bridges and then move on. He feels better because he made someone else feel just as shitty as he feels about himself.
Post by pegasuskat on Dec 22, 2014 16:14:58 GMT -5
You have to realize that anybody that says something like this is trying to make you feel bad to cover some problem that HE has! Don't let this effect your life and the way you live it in any way, you are better off without him in your life. And don't let him ruin any thing that's out there waiting for you, don't say your done dating, just done with jerks like him!
Holy shit. He called your relationship a 7 month experiment? That actually knocked the wind out of me when I read it.
How do sociopaths like that walk among us actual humans without routinely getting their teeth knocked out?
They charm people at first and then they do really really shitty things to people; burn bridges and then move on. He feels better because he made someone else feel just as shitty as he feels about himself.
He will move on and do it to someone else.
People suck sometimes.
But you would think once in a while their bad deeds would catch up to them?! There is no justice. OP, 40 lbs is a major accomplishment. Just remember that.
They charm people at first and then they do really really shitty things to people; burn bridges and then move on. He feels better because he made someone else feel just as shitty as he feels about himself.
He will move on and do it to someone else.
People suck sometimes.
But you would think once in a while their bad deeds would catch up to them?! There is no justice. OP, 40 lbs is a major accomplishment. Just remember that.
You would think, right? I'm feeling bitter if you can't tell.
OP, I hope this is one little blip in the road for you. Do not let this guy touch your self-worth. You are awesome!
This just made me cry. Probably because my cheating ex husband once answered the question. "are you ever going to tell me you love me again" with the answer "are you ever going to lose weight?"
It took awhile but I now know that even alone I am a billion times happier than with that asshole.
Let's sing some Meghan trainor: "every inch of you is perfect from the bottom to the top !"
And I hope he gets herpes from the next chick he bangs.
Post by messykitchen on Dec 22, 2014 16:20:34 GMT -5
That is EXACTLY what he did. He charmed me at first, then things got iffy, then things went to THIS. all of his exes have cheated on him. Gee, I wonder why?
This is purely a reflection on him, trust me. It has nothing to do with you. He's just a terrible person, and you are better off. I'm sorry you are hurting though.
You're beautiful, and 100x better than the scum he's shown himself to be. I'm so, so sorry that he would have the audacity to say something that cruel to you. Fuck him.
Is this the same guy you became engaged to recently? I was just reading if there was some backstory and, if so, this guy has been around a while. Man, oh man, what total mindfuck for you when you have every reason to celebrate yourself. And you have a child that's invested in this guy too. Ugh, my heart hurts for you guys.