I took a long nap and feel better, so much in part because of all the wonderful things you women have said. I know he's an asshole. It's gonna sting for awhile. But I would rather know who he is now, I guess.
He txted me 5 times while I napped but I learned something. How to block numbers on my phone!
I love all of you.
And for those in Iowa, any of you near Carlisle? LOL
What a dick. I am so sorry. You know you don't deserve to be treated that way.
but. Why in the hell is he texting you now? What could he possibly want from you?
I know you know that, but you really need to hear it. He didn't say it because of who you are or what you weigh. He said it because he is a fucked up sadistic sociopath who enjoys other people's pain. He picked up that this would be the insult that would cut most so that is what he threw out at you.
My husband has a few patients like that. He hates them. He comes home, takes a shower and spends the rest of the evening telling the girls how wonderful they are so that if they ever run into an asshole like that at least they've heard the truth from someone.
You shouldn't have to pay the price for his cruelty. I'm so sorry.
And for those in Iowa, any of you near Carlisle? LOL
I can be there in 4.5 hours. I'll bring the matches. And eggs. We'll start by releasing all your anger by egging his house, car, business, him, etc. Then we'll see where it goes from there. We'll call it therapy.
Post by mrsukyankee on Dec 23, 2014 3:17:19 GMT -5
He texted your 5 times because he didn't get the reaction he was hoping for, which was something around "I'll change for you, I'll do whatever it takes" - he was hoping you were weakling and didn't realise (because he's a dumb schmuck) that you are actually someone who is amazing and strong. Good on you for blocking him. You are beyond better than him - he's shouldn't even be allowed to breathe the same air as you.
. If there's ever an instance to put someone on blast on the Internet, photo included, this is it. [br
I was so thinking this, isn't there a "dont date him" website? No really, you don't deserve a douchelord like that. His ego is probably way bigger than his d!ck or his looks. I never understood men, the uglier they are lately the bigger their ego is. Their friends need to stop telling them they look good & giving them a cocky attitude.
I'm sorry that he TRIED to insult you, but by doing so, he showed you his true colors.
Like a PP said, this has nothing to do with your actual looks, but more about him being an immature psychopath trying to pull you down
You are far too good of a person to waste another second of your energy on this pathetic person. He deserves all of the bad Karma coming his way. He is a miserable person and it's no wonder he will most likely spend the rest of his life unfulfilled and unhappy. How pathetic.
Post by Captain Serious on Dec 23, 2014 7:50:54 GMT -5
I'm so sorry. What a completely base, cruel thing to say. I wonder if he ever flashed small hints of this true, hurtful side of his personality before, or if he really was able to keep it completely hidden, intentionally luring you into a false sense of security. If it's the later, he's not just a mean, unfeeling asshole, he's also a psychopath.
Please don't let him have another minute of control over you by affecting you feelings. Go about the rest of your day/week/life happy to be free of his unstable presence.
I'm so sorry you were treated this way, it's disgusting and he is a horrible person.
I dated a sociopath once and this is pretty much the way he ended our "dating" relationship as well (he told me he tried to like someone with my looks but it didn't work.) I'm not surprised he is still texting you, the guy I dated couldn't believe I didn't want to stay friends. When you look into other areas of his life you will find a pattern of cruelty and self-absorption. They get pleasure by believing their words and actions control the emotions and self-worth of others.
Ok, what he said to you isn't acceptable after any length of time - but you have to know that if he bothered to put SEVEN MONTHS into a relationship with you, what he said was in no way, shape, or form true.
If he truly wanted to do some experiment, he would have done that after a couple of dates. You don't invest 7 months into someone you don't actually have an attraction to and care about.
This sounds to me like someone who likes to use words to hurt and lashed out by saying the thing he knew would hurt the most. I don't know what the context was, but you have to know this is TOTALLY UNTRUE. I fucking hate people who say hurtful things just to be hurtful.
Also, I see you are in my state. Let me know if you'd like me to go slash his tires or put him on blast on facebook or something.
I took a long nap and feel better, so much in part because of all the wonderful things you women have said. I know he's an asshole. It's gonna sting for awhile. But I would rather know who he is now, I guess.
He txted me 5 times while I napped but I learned something. How to block numbers on my phone!
I love all of you.
And for those in Iowa, any of you near Carlisle? LOL