Yay! I feel so much better. Our philosophies are so much better aligned. I also have a new, far more baby friendly hospital. I'm feeling so glad that I went with my instincts. MB can come when she likes now (though I'd prefer she wait a bit :-)). Thanks for the encouragement!
She was really nice and positive. Encouraged me to labor at home (yay!), talked to me for almost an hour and a half. Agreed to a heplock and not taking the baby and all the other important things. I'm excited now!