Post by Emerald1486 on Jan 21, 2015 10:30:14 GMT -5
Someone asked me if something had been done as soon as I walked in to work this morning and I just received the info yesterday. Dude, I was out with a sick kid. I wasn't in yesterday. At least give me a chance to get my coffee. Then to top it all off, the file made my computer freeze which just pissed me off more.
Post by udscoobychick on Jan 21, 2015 10:31:39 GMT -5
Phew, the HR guy just called. They want to do a PHONE interview today. His VM didn't say phone. That makes a lot more sense. We're on for 3 pm--I will just duck out to my car for it. Wish me luck, please!
Phew, the HR guy just called. They want to do a PHONE interview today. His VM didn't say phone. That makes a lot more sense. We're on for 3 pm--I will just duck out to my car for it. Wish me luck, please!
Phew, the HR guy just called. They want to do a PHONE interview today. His VM didn't say phone. That makes a lot more sense. We're on for 3 pm--I will just duck out to my car for it. Wish me luck, please!
H went to the doctor this morning to get some strange swelling/inflammation in his toes checked out. The doctor dropped the "it could be lupus" bombshell on him. I think something in me is broken because while I was able to outwardly comfort and reassure him, my inner reaction was:
"It's never lupus." Fortunately, I bit my tongue. He's understandably upset and worried. And the thing is, he's got a lot of the symptoms. We won't know anything for sure until the blood work comes back, and even then it will take a lot of additional tests to confirm the diagnosis.
I need someone to tell me how I should be feeling right now.
There was a huge fire right by my laundromat early this morning. It was on the same block. The entire street was closed until recently. I may have to go somewhere else.
For the past few weeks, the Prosecutor has seemed awkward/uncomfortable around me at times. He came over last night and it seemed particularly uncomfortable. Its really bothering me today so I emailed him about it. Yes, emailed. I know that ultimately this is likely not the best way to ask what is going on but I wanted to at least start the conversation that way because it is really bothering me and I can't talk to him right now. Also, email might actually make it easier for us both to be completely honest with one another.
Ugh, I'm waiting for my mammogram. I hate these tests. They make me so damn anxious every time I have to go.
Fingers crossed for celebration-worthy results.
Definitely celebration-worthy results! Everything was all clear AND because I've gone 2 years with good results, I've graduated to going once a year instead of twice a year!
TBH, it makes me a little nervous, though. I don't like the appointments, but I do like someone doing a very thorough check up on me every 6 months. Gah!
For the past few weeks, the Prosecutor has seemed awkward/uncomfortable around me at times. He came over last night and it seemed particularly uncomfortable. Its really bothering me today so I emailed him about it. Yes, emailed. I know that ultimately this is likely not the best way to ask what is going on but I wanted to at least start the conversation that way because it is really bothering me and I can't talk to him right now. Also, email might actually make it easier for us both to be completely honest with one another.
For the past few weeks, the Prosecutor has seemed awkward/uncomfortable around me at times. He came over last night and it seemed particularly uncomfortable. Its really bothering me today so I emailed him about it. Yes, emailed. I know that ultimately this is likely not the best way to ask what is going on but I wanted to at least start the conversation that way because it is really bothering me and I can't talk to him right now. Also, email might actually make it easier for us both to be completely honest with one another.
I don't think using email to start a potentially difficult conversation is a bad thing. Hope it goes well!
Definitely celebration-worthy results! Everything was all clear AND because I've gone 2 years with good results, I've graduated to going once a year instead of twice a year!
TBH, it makes me a little nervous, though. I don't like the appointments, but I do like someone doing a very thorough check up on me every 6 months. Gah!
He said that uncomfortable isn't the word he would use but rather that he's trying to be conscious of not "smothering" me.
So this is all as a result of a conversation we had a few weeks ago. He is VERY physically affectionate. Always wants to be holding hands/touching/physically connected. I am NOT. I told him that I needed him to back off a bit on that because it was making me feel smothered. Gah! So now he's self conscious about how much he is touching me and I can feel that self consciousness and it makes me uncomfortable. Also, I feel kinda guilty because is he now not getting what he needs?!!?!
bullygirl979 that's great news! Can you voluntarily go every 6 months if you want? Just for piece of mind?
SwimDeep my guess is your reaction to your H's possible latest problem is "just one more thing". Followed by a big old eye roll. Can't tell you how you are supposed to feel but I'd probably react the same way.
H went to the doctor this morning to get some strange swelling/inflammation in his toes checked out. The doctor dropped the "it could be lupus" bombshell on him. I think something in me is broken because while I was able to outwardly comfort and reassure him, my inner reaction was:
"It's never lupus." Fortunately, I bit my tongue. He's understandably upset and worried. And the thing is, he's got a lot of the symptoms. We won't know anything for sure until the blood work comes back, and even then it will take a lot of additional tests to confirm the diagnosis.
I need someone to tell me how I should be feeling right now.
One of good friends actually does have lupus. She was glad when she found out because it meant an explanation to all the issues she was having.
Be supportive and comforting and wait for the results. Nothing can be done till then