Post by orangeglow on Jan 26, 2015 19:37:00 GMT -5
I kept wondering how you were doing, but didn't feel it was right to ask. *hugs* rumpers. I am so sorry that you had to make this decision, but not that you made it. Thinking of you and your little banana. If you need anything you know how to contact me off of here.
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"I was thinking about getting off on demand, but it sounds like I should be glad that I didn't"
Post by sapphireblue on Jan 26, 2015 20:38:07 GMT -5
I am so sorry. For what it's worth, this sounds sort of similar to how things were for me when I ended my marriage.
I still loved my exH and wanted him to be happy but he was SO moody and often angry and it wasn't always rational. Also, he would get totally absorbed in one obsession after another (Farmville, then commenting on political stuff on the Huffington Post, then researching the stock market). Drank too much, etc.
I didn't mean to make this about me, but to say I can relate to the situation of caring about your H, knowing you'll miss him, but realizing a lot about the dynamic you're in day to day has gradually become intolerable.
It might get really difficult for a while as you sort things out, but it will get better, I promise!
Sorry. I know it's a rough thing to go through, but you deserve happiness. Feel free to mosey over to (my home board) SO. Lots of awesome ladies that have all started over. Hugs.
Post by Alwaysabridesmaidf on Jan 26, 2015 20:49:11 GMT -5
I'm sorry you are going through this. Know that it is ok to let go. You have worked hard. You will be ok. Your dd will be ok. You are doing the right thing for you and your family. Big hugs and take care of yourself.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
I'm sorry you're going through this. I remember getting to a point with XH where I was just done - staying with him seemed worse than venturing out on my own.
It's normal to feel scared, but you will get through this. Do you have friends and family you can lean on for support?
This also happened to me. Six months later, I am starting to feel fine. So much pressure off my back!
"This prick is asking for someone here to bring him to task Somebody give me some dirt on this vacuous mass so we can at last unmask him I'll pull the trigger on it, someone load the gun and cock it While we were all watching, he got Washington in his pocket."