Hump day Randoms!

[Eureka1984]

I'm starting!


So I am not a very into horoscopes but this past week's forecast has told me that I am going to experience a big change not only in my love life but in my career as well and it will be so good. Unfortunately nothing has happened that is noticeable and I feel impatient and crazy for wishing something would change. Anyways... Happy hump day!

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I woke up this morning and started getting ready for work, then got incredibly nauseous, so I am back in bed for one more day. I think its the ear infection that makes me really dizzy and nauseous when I move around too much.

Is it too much of me to expect guys on these dating apps to start a message with something besides a comment on my appearance? I have all kinds of things I am interested in on my profile, am feeding a goat in one pic, and reading harry potter in another. Do guys just assume all girls care about is how hot they think we are?

[lyssbobiss, Command, B613]

Good morning!

Man, it's a creepy experience when you're used to being the only person awake on your street, and while you're scraping the car someone comes outside to get his paper. Especially because he had a hard time finding it in the dark and he kept walking around in circles. It scared me so much!

I ordered tickets to a cheese festival in 2 weeks. No regrets.

So I don't have okcupid anymore but I do still have a FL profile that I barely check. It even says on my profile that I don't want any new relationships, and I STILL get creepy come-on messages. Yesterday a dude misspelled "hey" and his profile pic was literally just his penis. I mean, wow. At least it gets the unsolicited dick pics out of the way? But how the hell do you fuck up hey?

[abcdefu]

Good Morning!

Another relaxing day is planned full of couch laying and trash tv watching! It's a tough job, but someone has to do it!

Oh and in hilarious news: Remember I was "hooking up, quasi-dating" 6YG? Remember I saw him out with another girl and he ignored me and then contacted me the next day because he wanted to sell my boss software or whatever he sells and he wanted me to meet him for lunch so I could watch a demo or some shit?? WELL, he texted me the other day. It took me a minute to figure out who it was because I deleted his name out of my phone. So this is where it gets good:

6YG: hey! I'm right near your work!
me: oh. well I'm not there and won't be for a while.
6YG: why?
Me: I had back surgery
6YG: oh that sucks. Well I have to go into a meeting. I'll text you later to see how you are feeling

Spoiler Alert! He never texted me back and it's been 4 days. You guys! I totally think he wanted to meet me for lunch on my break to watch the stupid demo and when I informed him I wasn't going to be working for a while, he dropped the convo.

 Thank god I can find the humor in this and don't give a shit if I ever hear from him. I just wonder if he sleeps with all of his potential clients before he tries to sell them shit! hahaha There are no words.

[abcdefu]

Jan 28, 2015 7:28:59 GMT -5 lyssbobiss, Command, B613 said:

Good morning!

Man, it's a creepy experience when you're used to being the only person awake on your street, and while you're scraping the car someone comes outside to get his paper. Especially because he had a hard time finding it in the dark and he kept walking around in circles. It scared me so much!

I ordered tickets to a cheese festival in 2 weeks. No regrets.

So I don't have okcupid anymore but I do still have a FL profile that I barely check. It even says on my profile that I don't want any new relationships, and I STILL get creepy come-on messages. Yesterday a dude misspelled "hey" and his profile pic was literally just his penis. I mean, wow. At least it gets the unsolicited dick pics out of the way? But how the hell do you fuck up hey?

I'm sorry! I stopped reading after the bolded text! A cheese festival sounds amazing!! Give me all the CHEESE!!!! oh with a side of wine

[starburst604]

abcdefu he is such a piece of crap!!

I don't have to be in work until noon. Right now I'm taking a break from studying for my kickboxing certification. I can't believe I'm going to be doing this at 26 weeks pregnant. They will probably think I'm nuts. Can I even execute a proper kick with my belly in the way right now?!

[jojoandleo]

abcdefu- what a douche! Fuck that guy!

I think my seasonal depression is in full force. I'm tired all the time, have no motivation, and just feel like... Is this all there is?

[cuddlyevil]

abcdefu, he's a jackass.

My boss called in sick so I am on my own here. WHEE!

[achase123]

Has a nice talk with my mom last night and I told her I didn't want her to be such a doom and gloomer about my life. She felt bad and apologized. She promised to be positive from now on and believe that good things are happening.

Biggest account ever is signing docs tonight-yay!!!!

I love my Tuesday night women's potluck group. Such a quirky group of women but it's like free her therapy when I go.

[peppermint]

mornin ya'll. i was up wayyy past my bedtime texting with tinder guy, who i really need to get a new nickname for.

looking forward to yoga tonight.

like FormerlyRR, i need to clean my house and shave since i have another date tomorrow night.

[pantsoffdanceoff]

My dog is going to be the death of me, or the reason for my bankruptcy. His staph infection keeps getting worse and he has like 20 spots (about 3/4 of them are healed, the other are fresh). I'm washing him with his fancy shampoo and putting soothing stuff on them. Poor guy looks like a leper. I have a call into my vet to get antibiotics and steroids. The only solace I'm taking in this is that he is not uncomfortable. He is not itching and scratching, but I still feel bad for him.

[peppermint]

pantsoffdanceoff are you seeing your regular vet? do you have a vet dermatologist in your area? my pup has HORRIBLE seasonal allergies and our vet was *thisclose* to referring us to a vet derm because all the "normal" treatments weren't working anymore.

big hugs. i know how much time and attention it takes to take care of a pup with skin/infection issues. you're such a great dog mama!

[pantsoffdanceoff]

Jan 28, 2015 9:23:12 GMT -5 peppermint said:

pantsoffdanceoff are you seeing your regular vet? do you have a vet dermatologist in your area? my pup has HORRIBLE seasonal allergies and our vet was *thisclose* to referring us to a vet derm because all the "normal" treatments weren't working anymore.

big hugs. i know how much time and attention it takes to take care of a pup with skin/infection issues. you're such a great dog mama!

Yes I am seeing my regular vet.  I honestly did not know that vet dermatologists existed.  I will be asking my vet about that when she calls me back.

Thank you for saying that.  I walk my dog nightly and whenever we happen upon a neighbor I can only imagine what they think I do to him when they see all his spots.

[cuddlyevil]

Jan 28, 2015 8:54:01 GMT -5 FormerlyRR said:

Jan 28, 2015 8:48:12 GMT -5 cuddlyevil said:

abcdefu, he's a jackass.

My boss called in sick so I am on my own here. WHEE!

Oh boy! Let the goofing off commence!

No, it means all the questions/issues come to me. MOAR WORK!

[peppermint]

pantsoffdanceoff, i didn't either before this summer, so that's why i thought i'd mention it. a lot of vets seem leery to refer to specialists and think they can treat everything, hopefully your vet would at least be open to you getting an opinion from a vet derm or other specialist.

haha, my neighbors even commented this summer that "your dog doesn't look good" when her allergies were really bad. and truthfully, she didn't - and the fact that the neighbors noticed made me feel even worse, because i was trying so hard to make her better.

good luck and keep us posted!

[WinterIsComing]

This week is dragging - can't it be Friday already?? I was planning to get some packing done last night but instead I was super lazy and just watched trashy reality tv. Combined with the popcorn I ate for dinner, it was not productive but I feel so much better today after a relaxing night.

There is a guy I have been very casually dating. We've hung out maybe 5 or 6 times in a month. I really like him - we just seem to get along well. Except that he is still dealing with shit from his last couple relationships and said he doesn't know if he is ready to be dating I feel like I can't be mad at him since he handled it so well and has been so honest but man it still sucks. He said he needs a little time to think and figure out what he wants. We have plans to go to a basketball game on Friday which I was super excited about but now I am worried it will be awkward. Dating sucks!!

@bk I have just started playing around on Tinder and have the same problem. So many guys lead with "you're pretty" or "you're hot. And half of them spell you're wrong!!

TR That is hilarious!!

[calle28]

No humping for me today, but I do have a first date!

WinterIsComing - Timing really is everything. Hopefully when he's ready to date, you guys can pick up where you left off. Will you continue hanging out?

[1confused1]

I think my son is embarrassed about my weight. He has made a few comments (only 1 directly about being fat which we talked about) and it feels like a punch in the gut. I've told him I'm working on getting healthy, but I'm so mad at myself that I gained so much weight.

[dreamcrisp1]

5 more nights until I get to hump. Ah. Can't wait! More so, I can't wait just to see my bf.

I have a killer migraine from horrible sleep and not eating dinner or drinking much water. Sigh.

Is it summer yet? I'm so ready for warmth!

[dreamcrisp1]

Jan 28, 2015 8:46:58 GMT -5 jojoandleo said:

abcdefu- what a douche! Fuck that guy!

I think my seasonal depression is in full force. I'm tired all the time, have no motivation, and just feel like... Is this all there is?

Mine is killing me. I need sunshine so badly. It's affecting so many parts of my life. I need to increase my vitamin intake too.

[Deleted]

Work is slow and I'm ok with that.  

My mom kinda annoyed me because I tried to call her yesterday and the day before and she's not answering.  (This is unusual..we speak daily). But she left her house down south and drove up north 3 hours (with her bf) to his daughter's house.  So you're with them...we have a large snow etc and you don't bother to call me or answer my calls.

THEN she texts me at 9am today and asks if I'm at work (YES, as usual..since 8) and tells me I should text her BFs son (he lives in my neighborhood) saying thank you because he offered to dig out my car.   He offered this to who??  I don't talk to him.  Apparently my mom or her bf spoke to him about me.

 Um...#1 I am completely capable of shoveling and so is J.  #2 if you are so concerned about me, you don't just ignore my calls for 2 days whe we usually talk daily.  #3 WTF!?!? 

[abcdefu]

Jan 28, 2015 9:07:09 GMT -5 pantsoffdanceoff said:

My dog is going to be the death of me, or the reason for my bankruptcy. His staph infection keeps getting worse and he has like 20 spots (about 3/4 of them are healed, the other are fresh). I'm washing him with his fancy shampoo and putting soothing stuff on them. Poor guy looks like a leper. I have a call into my vet to get antibiotics and steroids. The only solace I'm taking in this is that he is not uncomfortable. He is not itching and scratching, but I still feel bad for him.

Poor puppy I hope he gets better soon!

[WinterIsComing]

calle28 I hope that works out. He is going to New Zealand for five weeks at the end of February and thinks that will give him some time to think through everything that is going on in his life. I told him that I was fine with just very casually dating till he leaves but can't do the being just friends thing. And I would have no expectation that we would be in touch while he was gone.

[jojoandleo]

Jan 28, 2015 10:32:51 GMT -5 WinterIsComing said:

This week is dragging - can't it be Friday already??

For the record-I liked this as a "dear lord, I agree!" to the sentence above. This week...shoot me.

[Deleted]

Today is my next door cubicle neighbors birthday and I want to get her a cupcake and a card but I can't be trusted in the cupcake shop!

[seabitch]

Hump day half done. I am so over this week.

[Eureka1984]

You guys I'm feeling down.. So today my boss announced a get together for Valentine's Day after work and I can't help but be depressed as I have no one special in my life. That also got me thinking of how I hate the online dating thing and how hard it is to date. I wish someone would just tell me it will get better.

[cuddlyevil]

It will get better Eureka1984! I promise, it just takes time.

[1confused1]

It will get better Eureka1984 !! Do something fun with your friends for V Day instead!

[seabitch]

It will get better Eureka1984, promise!