4, 5 & 5 months. But that was where they started off. Most of them came into our bed after whatever the current cutoff was - usually after 4/5am. That usually ended by 18ish months? Can't recall. DS ends up in our bed by 6 most mornings, usually closer to 5.
Joey went in his own room when he started STTN at 9 weeks. Mallory stayed with us until 5 months, at which point we decided she wasn't going to STTN so we at least wanted to stop tip toeing around ever time we got up to pee.
STTN at 9 weeks? That's amazing! I don't think DD STTN until 9 months
We use the pnp in our room for all of them at first. G was in there for 4 months or so. But my h was working nights at the time, and I was a paranoid new mom. It was. Crappy though because every little sigh/snort/rustle woke me up. N was on there for 2 months and then she got the boot. Who knows about this guy. Probably somewhere jn the middle. We don't bedshare so as soon as they're not up all night they get the boot. Our house is small, zo even in their own rooms across the house they're not really all that far away
Post by cabbagecabbage on Jan 31, 2015 8:26:42 GMT -5
I had planned on 4 months in the cosleeper when I was pregnant. In reality we bedshared for 18 months. She was in our room in her sidecared crib until 27 months and just got a big girl room and bed and made a great transition.
All three of mine stayed in our room for the first 6-7 months. It wasn't planned that's just how it worked out. They started out in a bassinet/basket then went to a PnP with a real mattress in it. I usually put them in bed with me at the last feeding around 3-4am. I was also hesitant to move LO2 and LO3 bc they were moving into a room with an older sib. That was always worse than I thought it would be. They never really woke each other up.
DD was 5 months, DS was 6 and DS 2 slept in a RNP in our room until 6 months then I slept in the guest room right next to his because it was easier until 8 months he started STTN two weeks ago. We absolutely don't co sleep. Sleep habits are one of my hills to die on.
DS slept in a bassinet in our room until he was 4 or 5 months. He was a preemie and I just felt better with him in our room. DD slept in the bassinet in our room until 2 months.
To be clear - we do not cosleep. She is in the RNP in our room, but there is no cosleeping going on. (No judgement, just not for us). I think she will be in there for another 2 months, maybe 4. Both of my kids were sleeping through the night by now and she is still getting up once a night (not complaining about that at all though).