This is long..oops. I'm feeling sensitive, anxious and shitty today. Last night I fell asleep on the couch and J was poking fun at me because I always try to deny that I'm exhausted. I got annoyed at him for teasing me and went to bed without saying goodnight. I woke up today with a migraine and him annoyed that I didn't say goodnight. I made a nice breakfast, threw in some laundry, popped Advil and went back to bed. I slept pretty much all day. J is making a nice dinner for us, so at least there's that. I'm looking at my almost 17 year old kitty and she's looking so pathetic. She's down to just over six lbs and is not herself anymore. She is eating (less) and drinking, but she's so tired looking. I can pick her up and move her while she's sleeping and she barely wakes up. I think it's time...her quality of life isn't the same. I'm sad and avoiding making the appointment. J is leaving it in my hands (she's his favorite kitty)...but he keeps saying how bad she looks. I've had her since I was in high school, you guys! ETA: pic of sandy tonight
I went and ordered new glasses this morning and bought 4 pairs of shoes. After that I hit a few other stores to finish grocery shopping for the week. Now I'm sitting on the couch and I'm quite sure I don't want to move until sometime later next week.
I'm so sorry @blueyes623! That is so much to deal with. It is so hard to make "the decision" for your poor kitty.
Thanks abcdefu. I've never had to be the one to make the decision. It was always my parents..she's the only one I took from when I lived with them. They had her older sister ( who I could not have at the time in my non pet friendly apt with xh) and they put her down 3 years ago at age 15. When I moved to a pet friendly apt, I took her and adopted 2 kittens. I feel so guilty to keep her around too long or not long enough. I'm so confused.
Post by jojoandleo on Jan 31, 2015 19:23:19 GMT -5
Okay, people on FB are all "stop the mommy wars and picking on moms for breast feeding/not, working/not, or vaccinating/not. We are all doing our best!"
NO! Picking on a mom for not vaccinating is NOT A MOMMY WAR. People who do not vaccinate are warring SCIENCE. It's not about a choice, it's about being fucking stupid AND BRINGING BACK GODDAM MEASLES YOU FUCKING MORONS.
Okay, people on FB are all "stop the mommy wars and picking on moms for breast feeding/not, working/not, or vaccinating/not. We are all doing our best!"
NO! Picking on a mom for not vaccinating is NOT A MOMMY WAR. People who do not vaccinate are warring SCIENCE. It's not about a choice, it's about being fucking stupid AND BRINGING BACK GODDAM MEASLES YOU FUCKING MORONS.
Post by Emerald1486 on Jan 31, 2015 21:14:23 GMT -5
I ended up going to a few tattoo studios to get a quote on getting one of my tattoos fixed. It is blown out. Both places are reasonably priced and think they can do good things with it. And I like their work. The one guy is a pirate who I recognized from renfaire. Then ended up doing dinner and a movie at home with my brother. He had read Divergent but had not seen the movie yet. Apparently as a movie from a book it sucks. As a movie, I like it. I'm debating on if I want to read it. I'm currently reading through Drums of Autumn by Diana Gabaldon and its rough. But a new Alison Weir book comes out in less than 2 weeks so I'm looking forward to that