Congrats! I know you had hellp last time and a bad delivery. I had the same experience with my first and spent most of my 2nd pregnancy really anxious about it all. PM me if you want to talk.
I feel firmly that I will try for a VBAC assuming *normal* circumstances (baby is head down, go into labor on my own before 41 weeks). My husband totally supports me but he is worried and sees RCS as more of a sure thing. But he knows it is my decision.
I can't decide. I really don't want another long labor followed by emergency C. I am so glad you are trying!