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katespade Senior Member Posts: 7,240 Likes: 10,380	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 16:44:36 GMT -5 via mobile Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by katespade on Feb 25, 2015 16:44:36 GMT -5 No. If I don't want to have sex at that moment I have no issues with telling H that I'm just not in the mood.
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mrssandro Elder Posts: 11,061 Likes: 8,479	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 16:52:47 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by mrssandro on Feb 25, 2015 16:52:47 GMT -5 No I am pretty honest that we either A) Don't have time B) one of is sick or C) I am so exhausted
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Post by HoneySpider on Feb 25, 2015 17:18:09 GMT -5

No...sometimes I just give a generic "don't feel like it" or "not in the mood" but I don't make up some alternate explanation

I guess I don't get the purpose of lying...are there certain things to say that are better than others? IMO if you reject him, you reject him, what does the reason matter?

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pooh8402 Elder Posts: 22,996 Likes: 21,415	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 17:20:03 GMT -5 Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by pooh8402 on Feb 25, 2015 17:20:03 GMT -5 I don't anymore, but I used to. DH told me that he would prefer I'm honest rather than trying to spare his feelings (which was how I saw it), so now I just say I don't want to.
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MrsMB Senior Member Posts: 9,004 Likes: 11,812	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 17:20:20 GMT -5 awick14, jjwritergirl, and 1 more like this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by MrsMB on Feb 25, 2015 17:20:20 GMT -5 No....I have the higher sex drive. So unfortunately, I can be on the receiving end of the declination sometimes. (Rumor has it, his recent surgery might help motivate things! FX!)
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estrellita Elder Posts: 14,196 Likes: 13,233	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 17:31:36 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by estrellita on Feb 25, 2015 17:31:36 GMT -5 Nah, I don't see the point in lying. Usually I tell him I'm tired or not in the mood and that's the truth.
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Deleted Posts: 0	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 17:53:40 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by Deleted on Feb 25, 2015 17:53:40 GMT -5 No. If I'm not in the mood I will tell him. That hardly happens, I have a higher sex drive.
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awick14 Elder Posts: 18,025 Likes: 15,242	hdbd- excuses Feb 25, 2015 23:29:20 GMT -5 via the ProBoards App Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by awick14 on Feb 25, 2015 23:29:20 GMT -5 No, I tell him the truth, I am like MrsMB though and I have the higher sex drive. I wouldn't want him to lie to me so I tell him the truth.
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bk1 Senior Member Posts: 7,213 Likes: 10,771	hdbd- excuses Feb 26, 2015 7:58:33 GMT -5 via Tapatalk Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by bk1 on Feb 26, 2015 7:58:33 GMT -5 Nope. I tell him the truth.
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melsamoony Full Member Posts: 4,131 Likes: 3,589	hdbd- excuses Feb 26, 2015 18:47:20 GMT -5 via mobile jjwritergirl likes this Quote Select Post Deselect Post Link to Post Member Give Gift Back to Top Post by melsamoony on Feb 26, 2015 18:47:20 GMT -5 I hesitated answering this until I re-read the question...i thought it was do you ever have an excuse for not having sex. I was astounded ppl said never lol. Reading comprehension fail.
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Post by katespade on Feb 25, 2015 16:44:36 GMT -5

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Post by HoneySpider on Feb 25, 2015 17:18:09 GMT -5

Post by pooh8402 on Feb 25, 2015 17:20:03 GMT -5

Post by MrsMB on Feb 25, 2015 17:20:20 GMT -5

Post by estrellita on Feb 25, 2015 17:31:36 GMT -5

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