Everyjuan.. (((hugs))) I hate that you're feeling this right now.
I know that one day you'll be in a happier place but I'm sorry you're feeling so down. I wish I could take you out for a drink and a talk right now. (((extra hugs)))
((everyjuan)) I've been thinking about you and how you're doing. I know it's not the same as ending a marriage, but I was in an emotionally abusive relationship when I was in college. When he finally left me I was so lonely without him, even though I knew that he was bad for me. It took a while, and I was a mess for a couple of months, but it got easier.
You got this. It'll be hard, but I know you can do it. <3
Post by W.T.Faulkner on Feb 27, 2015 0:04:48 GMT -5
This will get easier with time.
Podcasts and audiobooks for driving until then. I agree with Pixy.
Keep in mind that your H's new girlfriend is dating a cheating dicktruffle. She has to deal with his stupid, disgusting ass and wonder who he's sleeping with while you watch whatever you want on TV, starfish your bed, make YOUR plans on the weekends, and, oh yeah, not get constantly put down for no reason by a living, breathing sack of pubes.
“Life is not orderly. No matter how we try to make it so, right in the middle of it lose a leg, fall in love, drop a jar of applesauce.” - Natalie Goldberg
Podcasts and audiobooks for driving until then. I agree with Pixy.
Keep in mind that your H's new girlfriend is dating a cheating dicktruffle. She has to deal with his stupid, disgusting ass and wonder who he's sleeping with while you watch whatever you want on TV, starfish your bed, make YOUR plans on the weekends, and, oh yeah, not get constantly put down for no reason by a living, breathing sack of pubes.
lol, this made me cry-laugh. Thank you.
Audiobooks and podcasts are a good idea. And I've been meaning to listen to Serial. Thanks, pixy0stix.
bania, I didn't think about that. I have a Target gift card. Maybe I'll run in and pick out a cute dress or something.
Oh and and and. In a moment of "I'm going to die alone" drama and weakness, I made a dating profile on a website. Note: I DO NOT WANT TO DATE RIGHT NOW, I was just curious.
Anyway, I made a profile but didn't upload a picture and wrote "123123123123123123" in the required "about me" space just so I could look. And I've gotten a message from someone every day. One said how beautiful I was. lol. HOW CAN YOU BE INTERESTED IN THIS you desperate weirdos.
Andddd then I canceled my account.
The idea of dating terrifies me, omg. This did not help.
Post by ElizabethBennet on Feb 27, 2015 0:13:44 GMT -5
Oh, honey .
I've been thinking about you, I'm sorry things are so awful right now. I know that logically you can tell yourself all of these things, but feelings aren't always logical, and that's ok! It sucks to be feeling these things but try not to be angry at yourself for your feelings. Have you tried journaling? Maybe just the act of getting them out on paper will give you a little freedom. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and I have no doubt in my mind that you are going to come out of this amazingly well.
I've been thinking about you, I'm sorry things are so awful right now. I know that logically you can tell yourself all of these things, but feelings aren't always logical, and that's ok! It sucks to be feeling these things but try not to be angry at yourself for your feelings. Have you tried journaling? Maybe just the act of getting them out on paper will give you a little freedom. I'm keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and I have no doubt in my mind that you are going to come out of this amazingly well.
Thanks for the thoughts, prayers, and encouragement. I did start a journal, but I haven't written in about a week. I should probably do that - thanks for the reminder.
Everyjuan.. (((hugs))) I hate that you're feeling this right now.
I know that one day you'll be in a happier place but I'm sorry you're feeling so down. I wish I could take you out for a drink and a talk right now. (((extra hugs)))
Oh, I wish you were too - I would love to drink with you! This is on my bucket list. Someday! (hug2)
Post by partyinmytummy on Feb 27, 2015 0:26:18 GMT -5
Sorry for my creepy lurker-ness. I had another name on here but I deleted the account when I realized it linked back to me. Anyway, I just wanted to recommend a book that really helped me out during a tough breakup. It's called "It's Called a Breakup Because it's Broken" and I *think* I saw it on the surviving infidelity forums? Anyway, it's a kickass book. You can read samples/quotes online and see if you think it would be up your alley.
Hugs, everyjuan. Everything you're feeling is completely normal. It sucks, but it's normal. I hope your heart learns quickly what your brain has known for awhile. You're beautiful, inside & out, and you deserve SO MUCH more than him & what you have been through.
Everyjuan.. (((hugs))) I hate that you're feeling this right now.
I know that one day you'll be in a happier place but I'm sorry you're feeling so down. I wish I could take you out for a drink and a talk right now. (((extra hugs)))
Oh, I wish you were too - I would love to drink with you! This is on my bucket list. Someday! (hug2)