I joined POF and had a date with a guy from there on Saturday. He is so nice and smart and we got along really well. We are planning for a second date - the only problem is that I don't know that I am super attracted to him. I will obviously go out with him at least one more, but silly question, how long to you give it to determine if you have chemistry with someone.
I didn't have heart pounding chemistry with A for the first date, but I wasn't turned OFF by him (some people you just know you wouldn't be able to kiss them with a gun to your head, you know?). By the second date I was like, "Hmm..." and then by the third date I think I was feeling pretty attracted to him. And it's grown a LOT since then.
On the other hand, I gave another guy 3 dates before I realized that while we got along well and all, I just couldn't picture myself going any further than a hug with him so I stopped seeing him.
Thanks TR, @pdx18, bl, and Wanderista. It was really helpful to hear all of your stories. Like I said, we got along SOOO well, so I will give it a few more dates before I start making decisions.
WinterIsComing I used to cut it off right away too if I didn't feel the elusive "spark." However I now think I was probably a little too hasty. I'm really glad I gave new guy a chance!
Hi ladies. Whelp, at least Monday is almost done! The weekend went too quickly (as usual) and it's such an effort to wake up early for work. Ya think it'd be a piece of cake because my whole life I've had to be out of the house around 7 am....but I'm just a crappy morning person. Just finished up dinner and im about to shower and relax.
And I have a flameful/FWP-I'm calling out tomorrow because my new phone was supposed to come today and they will absolutely not leave it without someone signing in front of them. I tried to make arrangements to have it held at the warehouse, but it's really far away and I'll never make it after work. So I'm staying home to sign for delivery and I plan to be a lazy bum and watch tv all day .
Post by Emerald1486 on Mar 2, 2015 20:50:17 GMT -5
I just started working out again today after a 2 week hiatus from being sick. I started a new program (Dance) on Daily Burn. I got 15 minutes and had to stop. My lungs were hurting. I will do it again tomorrow and hope that I can get further. Just keep going, right?
ETA I just did a 45 sec plank which is a new record for me. So I don't feel so bad
OverAll a very good day even though court was inconclusive for now.
My brand new client came in with another friend who recently was widowed. She needs financial guidance too. She said "I told her how awesome you were and she needs to talk to you!" Thats the best compliment ever.
I love watching P at baseball practice. He's adorable.
Mr grandparents are coming this week to watch him while I have a client mtg out of town. He's soooo looking forward to it.