I was talking to a group today about the "traditional" family unit and how it's changing.
So, I'm curious - what was your family unit when you were growing up?
I was raised by my biological parents (mother/father) I was raised by a single parent I was raised by my bio mother & a stepfather I was raised by my bio father & a stepmother I was raised by my grandparents I was raised by other relatives I was raised by foster parents I was raised by adoptive parents I was raised by same sex couple (2 moms/2 dads) Other
I was raised by my mom and dad, happily divorced, with a step-parent thrown in here and there. My first step-dad lasted 7 years, my step-mom lasted like 4. My current SD and mom married when I was 17, so, he didn't really raise me.
My parents divorced when I was 15, and even before that my dad worked 2/3 jobs my whole life so my mom could stay home so it was always mostly her, but I checked the first option since technically they were married through my childhood.
Dh is a combo of the choices. His bio grandfather and step-grandmother adopted him when he was a babe and raised him to think he was their bio child. He found out at 18 when his actual bio mom called to drop the bomb and then quickly hang up.
Bio parents divorced when I was 8 (I have a brother who is 3 years older than me) Mom/stepdad married at 10 Dad/stepmom married at 12 (gained stepsister 3 weeks older than me and step brother 2 years younger)
I lived with my mom mostly and saw my dad on Wednesdays and every other weekend, until I was about 16 and stopped going to my dad's for a while. I now have a great relationship with them all
Post by AmeliaBedelia on Mar 2, 2015 19:06:38 GMT -5
Raised by adoptive parents.
Though I was 2 days old at the time of adoption and have no contact with my biological parents, so I tend to forget that I'm adopted - I almost chose the first option.
I was raised by my bio parents, but it was a second marriage for both. I have three older half siblings who would have different answers to this question, and a younger brother whose answer would be the same as mine.
i was raised by my bio dad alone until i was nearly 9, and then both bio dad & step-mom.
my parents divorced because my mother is a lesbian, and she married my other step mom. they did not raise me though. i saw them per custody agreements until i had the choice not to. now i see them a few times a year.